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I love it, if my OH goes near the garden before CD12 next month Indigo is coming for him, with a big stick
That should sort him out
I love it, if my OH goes near the garden before CD12 next month Indigo is coming for him, with a big stick
Thanks, I'm feeling pretty good today, my OH now understands that gardening is verboten until after ov next month!
Talking to you ladies online, and my only TTC35+ friend (who lives overseas now) has really helped me this past day or so, I'm ready to start again next month and in the meantime I'm going to have some fun, we had some "recreational" shagging this afternoon and a lovely lazy sunday.
Does anyone ever feel like beating their head against the wall?! Lol.
Ok, venting done....
Jax, send yours over, too.
It should be his # 1 priority to make you a mommy!
WTH?
Jax it's flipping tough this . I must admit I was really unsure which way our talk/rant was going to go , I think I was so wound up and hurt feeling he wasn't as committed as me that I didn't care at that point . Your right though , this would add another huge pressure on you and it would be lonely , just want to say were all here. Even though I'm new to this forum I already feel blown away by the support . Lean on us all whenever you need
Rooting for you all the way
Jax, sorry to hear your feeling the strain. and yes sometimes I do want to hit him over the head, but then I think he is scared for me, he saw me go through the pain of losing two and I´m sure that effected him too.
Overall I see my male friends with their kids and I think they didn´t understand how important children were until they had them. One friend of mine went through ivf with his ex because she wanted a baby. He thought that when it was born he would see her at weekends and that would be fine. Now he is changing everything in his life to be with his daughter every day. So I hope that even if they aren´t very involved now, when the bubs are born they will find their role and fall in love with them. I´m sure my oh will be a great dad, he is fantastic with his brothers kids, but I have to accept that to get us there I´m pretty much on my own...except for you fab ladies!! Sisters are doing it for themselves (exits singing!)
Hello ladies, big to you. I have a different set of circumstances that has it's own challenges but Jax I just wanted to say that a friend of mine was in a similar situation to you where she did not have kids and her DH already did and wasn't really keen on more. But she talked him round to trying and although his heart wasn't really in it he totally changed when the kids arrived (they ended up with 2 and she was over 40 for both) and is a great father.
Anyway, I'm grateful that my BF is someone I can totally talk to about all of it - stick my legs up in the air, put in the soft cups and show him the sticks, even though we are not together, so I am really grateful for that. It is tough as well to schedule it all but it could be worse
So to you who have issues with your OH and hope you manage to get them talked through.
Jax, send yours over, too.
It should be his # 1 priority to make you a mommy!
WTH?
Jax, send yours over, too.
It should be his # 1 priority to make you a mommy!
WTH?
Yikes!! You're right though Indigo , he's a bad boy I'm going to smack his l'il bum
Jax, send yours over, too.
It should be his # 1 priority to make you a mommy!
WTH?
Yikes!! You're right though Indigo , he's a bad boy I'm going to smack his l'il bum
He might like that
Jax, send yours over, too.
It should be his # 1 priority to make you a mommy!
WTH?
Yikes!! You're right though Indigo , he's a bad boy I'm going to smack his l'il bum
He might like that
Definitely going to give it a go then!!!!!
Hello ladies, big to you. I have a different set of circumstances that has it's own challenges but Jax I just wanted to say that a friend of mine was in a similar situation to you where she did not have kids and her DH already did and wasn't really keen on more. But she talked him round to trying and although his heart wasn't really in it he totally changed when the kids arrived (they ended up with 2 and she was over 40 for both) and is a great father.
Anyway, I'm grateful that my BF is someone I can totally talk to about all of it - stick my legs up in the air, put in the soft cups and show him the sticks, even though we are not together, so I am really grateful for that. It is tough as well to schedule it all but it could be worse
So to you who have issues with your OH and hope you manage to get them talked through.
Thank you Butterfly!! Your message has filled me with confidence again and I'm feeling much better today!! TBH I have no doubt that my DH will love to be a Daddy again he just thinks what's all the fuss about the bit before, 'it'll happen' whilst I'm like a cat on a hot tin roof!!
It's good that you can be open with your BF about it all, but then trying to organise it when you're not 'together' must lead to a whole new challenge!!
Loads of luck to you this cycle, go get that BFP!!xXx
Ps. I feel like you should have my avatar!!
Hello ladies, big to you. I have a different set of circumstances that has it's own challenges but Jax I just wanted to say that a friend of mine was in a similar situation to you where she did not have kids and her DH already did and wasn't really keen on more. But she talked him round to trying and although his heart wasn't really in it he totally changed when the kids arrived (they ended up with 2 and she was over 40 for both) and is a great father.
Anyway, I'm grateful that my BF is someone I can totally talk to about all of it - stick my legs up in the air, put in the soft cups and show him the sticks, even though we are not together, so I am really grateful for that. It is tough as well to schedule it all but it could be worse
So to you who have issues with your OH and hope you manage to get them talked through.
Thank you Butterfly!! Your message has filled me with confidence again and I'm feeling much better today!! TBH I have no doubt that my DH will love to be a Daddy again he just thinks what's all the fuss about the bit before, 'it'll happen' whilst I'm like a cat on a hot tin roof!!
It's good that you can be open with your BF about it all, but then trying to organise it when you're not 'together' must lead to a whole new challenge!!
Loads of luck to you this cycle, go get that BFP!!xXx
Ps. I feel like you should have my avatar!!
Glad you are feeling better today, it is all so stressful isn't it!
Thanks for the GL, am really hoping this is the month as I have the time to get plenty of in without stressing about having to be anywhere!
Yes, I should nick your avatar! I had a purple one before my real pic and I might go back to that if I want to be anonymous again!
I thought this was a bad day sticky thread, now I'm reading about spanking and whipping! Yippee! Hope everyone's feeling good right now x