I want to stop feeling worried!!

[SPN1304]

I went to the doctor today just to confirm everything and to book my 1st appt with the midwife at the beginning of October. Whilst I was there the Dr said that 1:5 pregnancys dont make it and not to get to devastated if the worst happens. I understand why he said that but now I am worrying even more than I already was. I know it wont help and keep telling myself that. Hopefully a few weeks down the line I will feel more relaxed.

I also told work today I know it is all very early but I work with dangerous substances so for helath and safety reason I had to say something. That too is making me worry like I am tempting fate by telling people.


Fingers crossed my bean wants to stay with me

Hope everyone is happy and healthy xxx

 

[PeanutBean]

What an idiot doctor! I told work at 6 weeks last time. No real h&s issues just crippling ms. I have a fabulous baby boy. Try not to feel superstitious. The outcome of your pregnancy depends of well functioning genetics in the embryo not when you tell work! It's hard but try not to worry. Think 4/5 pregnancies go on to be gorgeous fat squashy babies instead!

 

[Tonnilou]

YUS /me points at peanut, What she said ;D I was just going to say the exact same thing. Plus if it helps a little we are all worried about the exact same things so you are perfectly normal hunnie. GRATS on your news and I told work last week too.

Big hugs XXXX

 

[SPN1304]

Thanks for your replies it helps just hearing other peoples opinions my OH was annoyed when I told him what the Dr said too.

Your right Peanut about trying not to be superstitious as like you said at the end of the day its genetics.

Thanks again