If I can't trust my own cervix...!?!?

[Impatientone]

I am currently 6 days late with BFNs. According to my CM and CP and a slight OPK positive and a slight temp increase... I should have ovulated at CD13 (im now at CD34). Then after a few days of temp rise it started going crazy with a 1 degree swing in either direction from day to day then on CD22 my temp stabilized and remained above the cover line. I put my OPKs away after I was certain I ovulated the first time so no additional info there. So according to the temp chart it looks like a false ovulation the first time then the real one later but the problem is what to believe because the evidence is split.
CD13- cervix soft, high, open. EWCM, Slight temp rise, slight OPK line
CD22- cervix high, firm, closed. No CM, jump in temp followed by a stable above base line high.

Does anyone have any thoughts? No signs of pregnancy or AF. Next cycle I will be starting with my CBFM so if I have another weird cycle maybe I can figure it out but I would love to know any thoughts on what could be going on this time. Anyone?

 

[Nearlymarried]

My cervix is out of control too. We're you feeling it at the same time every day? I have read that can change it. I think the cervix is the most variable of it all, mine changed heaps and not very relative to where I was in my cycle. It sounds like you did O the second time though.

 

[Impatientone]

My cervix is out of control too. We're you feeling it at the same time every day? I have read that can change it. I think the cervix is the most variable of it all, mine changed heaps and not very relative to where I was in my cycle. It sounds like you did O the second time though.

Even with egg white CM the first time and completely dry the second? One other thing is that I always feel ovulation cramps- like clockwork and its always confirmed by temp spike the next day. I had cramps both times. Is it possible to ovulate twice?

 

[Nearlymarried]

From what I know CM, cervix position, OPKs can only tell you I your body is gearing up for ovulation, they cannot tell you if it actually happens. Temping is the only way to vitally confirm o happened. Temping also has its limits an if you don't quite do it perfectly it could give you inaccurate results (although probably not). Your body can try to ovulate a couple of times in a cycle, there area my different things that can delay it (stress, illness etc.). However it you won't ovulate twice in a cycle, if your body starts trying again in the same cycle it will be that you didn't o the attempt before. Also you know you o the day before your temp rises and some women's CM dries up just before o rather than after.
Basically we are all quite different and even with all the signs nothing is 100% so we have been BDing until a clear temp shift so we don't miss an unexpectedly late o.

 

[Impatientone]

From what I know CM, cervix position, OPKs can only tell you I your body is gearing up for ovulation, they cannot tell you if it actually happens. Temping is the only way to vitally confirm o happened. Temping also has its limits an if you don't quite do it perfectly it could give you inaccurate results (although probably not). Your body can try to ovulate a couple of times in a cycle, there area my different things that can delay it (stress, illness etc.). However it you won't ovulate twice in a cycle, if your body starts trying again in the same cycle it will be that you didn't o the attempt before. Also you know you o the day before your temp rises and some women's CM dries up just before o rather than after.
Basically we are all quite different and even with all the signs nothing is 100% so we have been BDing until a clear temp shift so we don't miss an unexpectedly late o.

Thanks for all the info! Sucks that the one most reliable thing I can't rely on for myself. I work 12 hour night shifts 3 days a week and my sleep is so unpredictable I never sleep at the same time two days in a row and I hardly stay asleep for more than 4 hours at a time so my temps are usually a bit scattered. I guess I have to annoy my husband more to cover the huge range of time I could O. Poor guy