I'm a horrible mum!

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  1. Sarah88

    Sarah88 Full time working mummy

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    So me and Justin DTD for the first time in 2 months last night, and for the first time since giving birth. It didn't hurt, but was tight so thankfully he went slow; i'm happy coz 'i'm tight' lol. But Savannah was in her bassinette in our room, and i'm pretty sure shewas awake, only I didn't no this until afterwards. I feel so bad! It's bad enough to have done it while she's in our room but while she's awake! :dohh: What kind of a mother am I? Obviously a horny one... :rofl:
    We didn't use protection either, so fingers crossed spermies didn't get far!
     
  2. Vickie

    Vickie Hannah & Rhys <3

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    I'm sorry but :rofl: :rofl:

    That doesn't make you a horrible mom
     
  3. Alexas Mommy

    Alexas Mommy Well-Known Member

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    :rofl: parents have sex too lol that doesn't make you a bad parent!
     
  4. leeanne

    leeanne Mom of 3 and Stepmom of 2

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    :rofl::rofl:

    I have to laugh too! It definitely doesn't make you a horrible mom!
     
  5. pinkmac85

    pinkmac85 Mom & pregnant with #2

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    Far from a bad mom!! Mom's have needs too! :p
     
  6. Sarah88

    Sarah88 Full time working mummy

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    I just feel bad coz she was in the room and awake, lol. Lucky we weren't loud.
    Would have been a mood killer if she had've started making noises or something :lol:
     
  7. princess_bump

    princess_bump Happy Wife & Mumma!

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    :rofl: your not a horrible mum, you needed 'mummy, daddy time' :winkwink:
     
  8. Sarah88

    Sarah88 Full time working mummy

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    Lol, does anyone think im naughty for havin her in the room? You r all lil hussies :rofl: Just kidding!
     
  9. xXhayleyXx

    xXhayleyXx Happy mummy of 6 :)

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    Well that makes me a bad mummy too then as we did the same the other day and Ruby was in our room lol. Im sure at their age they wont be scarred for life by it lol. On a more serious note tho are u trying for another so soon? Brave women lol xx
     
  10. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    Aslong as she wasn't in your bed :rofl:
     
  11. Sarah88

    Sarah88 Full time working mummy

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    :rofl: Then I really would be a bad mum!!
    Nah, not trying for another anytime oon, tbh condoms didn't even cross our minds... I did read tho that bfing is a form of contraceptive if u haven't had ur first period yet... Wouldn't take it as bible tho
     
  12. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    I don't believe that.. :rofl: Good luck!
     
  13. Sarah88

    Sarah88 Full time working mummy

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    Nah, me either but I didn't think the morning after pill was safe when bf'ing... or is it?
     
  14. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    Doubt it! I'd say google it but google is badddd
     
  15. isil

    isil Well-Known Member

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    I doubt that you'll be pregnant but there's always a chance!

    And it totally does not make you a bad Mum. OH and I did it this morning and Ally was definitely awake...and smiling :rofl: He wasn't making noise but I think he was quite interested in what was going on...oops!
     
  16. Sarah88

    Sarah88 Full time working mummy

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    :rofl: Thats funny.
    Glad i'm not the only one!!
     
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    nikky0907 Well-Known Member

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    the midwife told me that its a myth that breast feeding prevents getting preggers so if u dont want one anytime soon get some condmoms or sumin lol
     
  19. Abbys_Mummy

    Abbys_Mummy Well-Known Member

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    I`m sorry but all i can do is :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
    I can remember everytime we did try to do it abby would cry :hissy: and we never got done i think we were both getting very frustrated lol than we just got over it oh and really horny and did it anyway she wont remember not that we made much noise. But oh god my ribs hurt still :rofl:
     
  20. Caroline

    Caroline Proud Mum of 4

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    After both my DD's my GP told me that so long as you were bf for at least an hour a day and not substituting any feeds then you are safe upto 6 months but you never know when AF will return.

    Personally I really wouldn't risk it.

    I'm sure if you googled it you could find the exact conditions for using bf as contraception.

    I didn't want to risk another so soon so didn't take his advice.
     

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