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Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive Over 35' started by Missy, Jun 5, 2011.

  1. Missy

    Missy Well-Known Member

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    Hi
    I'm back here now WTT after a missed miscarriage two days ago. I'm so gutted. I had DD2 at 41 and am now 43. I felt so blessed to find myself pregnant again. I am devastated to lose my LO and am now wondering whether I am crazy to try again but I would so love another.
     
  2. Wendyk07

    Wendyk07 Mummy to Derrin and PAL

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    Am so sorry for your loss hun.:hugs:

    No your not crazy to try again. Its perfectly natural. Wishing you all the luck in the world.

    Wendy
    x
     
  3. AliGirl

    AliGirl Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss. I kind of know where you're at. I m/ced about 6 weeks ago, and we're now trying again. FXed for you. It's so frustrating to get the pregnancy and then face the disappointment all over again. Hopefully the next one will stick. :thumbup:
     
  4. Neversaynever

    Neversaynever Whatever.....

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    :hugs: and sorry for your loss.

    Nope, not crazy wanting to try again...perfectly normal in fact.

    Be kind to yourself though and take it easy :flower:

    XxX
     
  5. Macwooly

    Macwooly Guest

    So sorry for your lose :hugs:

    I agree with the other ladies that you're not crazy but as has been said please be kind to yourself x
     
  6. NorthStar

    NorthStar Well-Known Member

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    :hugs:So sorry to hear of your loss.

    You're not crazy to try again, but give yourself a bit of time and space to grieve too babe.
     
  7. Desperado167

    Desperado167 Guest

    Hi Hun,so so sorry for your loss,:hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
     
  8. sukisam

    sukisam Well-Known Member

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    so sorry for your loss :hugs:
    of course you're normal for wanting another.
    look after yourself and get lots of support to help you after loosing your little one
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  9. TiggerToo

    TiggerToo Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care of yourself.
     
  10. Indigo77

    Indigo77 Guest

    so very sorry for your loss...:hugs:...FXed for your next bfp....
     
  11. Sewergrrl

    Sewergrrl Mama of 2 girls

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    I'm so sorry. :(
     
  12. cebethel

    cebethel mama of 2 boys

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    I'm so sorry for your loss :(
     
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    tulip girl Well-Known Member

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    Missy, so sorry to hear about your loss. Good luck for a speedy bfp. x
     
  14. Garnet

    Garnet Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss! I'm 43 too and just lost my Lo on May 2nd and we are going to try again. I have a fertility doctor and have a hsg appointment this coming tuesday. I also lost on Sept of 10. I'm taking all sorts of vitamins so hopefully my eggs are better shape...
     
  15. Spoomie

    Spoomie Mummy of 1 & TTCAL

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    Hi there

    I am so sorry for your pain. I saw the post about your loss on TTC ups and downs over 40 thread. You are not crazy, just in pain and maybe not at your most rational, it is definitely NOT impossible. Similar to you, I had my DS at 40 and am now 43, having suffered a mc at 12 weeks late last year. I have just lived through my lost baby's due date this weekend and I survived, albeit a sad and difficult day. It is only natural to worry that your lost baby was your last chance, I can totally relate to that fear, but in calmer moments you will remind yourself that you have now conceived twice in your 40s and you WILL do it again. Only latterly have I come to realise that my sadness may, in itself, be hindering my chances and I must try to cut myself some slack. I hope that you manage to come to this place more quickly than I have, be patient with yourself but try to keep positive. Bless you xxx
     
  16. Missy

    Missy Well-Known Member

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    Thank you all so much. Your kind words mean a lot. Love and hope to all x
     
  17. Missy

    Missy Well-Known Member

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    Garnet, what are you taking for egg quality? I've heard lots of different suggestions so would be interested to know. Thanks x
     

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