I'm in serious denial

[Natthewife]

I last had a scan with consultant at 16 weeks. Baby was upside down but she thought boy but wasn't certain. Yes seen a wee nub sticking straight out but no scrotum and I'm disappointed as I desperately wanted a girl this time. I've convinced myself she wrong, that maybe it was a bit of cord. I am just so convinced its a girl! Symptoms, way I'm carrying EVERYTHING about this pregnancy is different from my boys. It's like a completeness opposite. Even baby's weight and size. I always have igur boys but this one is measuring ahead. My husband thinks I need to accept boy but I just can't as I'm either nuts or in severe denial which is scary. 20 week scan tomorrow but the tech at my hospital won't tell sex only consultant and I don't see her again until 24 weeks. It's driving me crazy!!

 

[katherinegrey]

Can you pay for a gender scan to put your mind at rest? I hope you get the result you want

 

[_jellybean_]

I'm sorry hon. Do you hav a lot of boys already? At 16 weeks they're usually right, but I hope they got it wrong.

 

[Paperhearts]

I'm sorry you're having a rough time with things. With my girls I was really sick. With my boys my pregnancies were always really easy. I was convinced the last two were girls because I felt so sick but they were both little boys. Now I can't imagine them any different. I'm sure once he's here you'll feel the same.

 

[Turnipstar]

I have three girls and I'm 12 weeks now, all three of prev pregs I have said boy by way I'm carrying and been shocked with girls, how I have felt etc all three totally different. But this one I'm 100% sure is another girl I can just tell I don't know if I can wait another 8 weeks to find out! X

 

[Katt36]

I am in the same boat with you. 15 + weeks tech said boy. I am on third boy and this is last chance for me . I am still in denial as well and praying 20 week scan shows something different. I know it's hard, I have had awful thoughts. I can't think of buying anything or getting ready. I am far from excited!!! Just know you aren't alone and that your feelings are valid. Keep me posted on what happens. Big xxxx