Hi, I've been hanging out in the WTT forum, but as DH and I have decided to start TTC in May, so I thought I'd come and introduce myself as well as get a little advice. I'm a 24 years old Canadian teacher and my husband is 31. We'll be married 2 yrs in July. We had a difficult time choosing to TTC because I don't yet have a permanent teaching position, but we finally decided that we don't absolutely need the second income, so we're going ahead with TTC. I might still get a permanent position before I go on maternity leave anyways, but we decided we're ok with it if I don't. Questions: We've already started eating well and taking vitamins, but when should.. - DH stop using hot tubs, wearing tight underwear... - I stop drinking alcohol (I only drink a little anyways) and coffee? We have Easter dinners coming up next weekend and we're going to a wedding May 1 and I'm afraid I'll look suspicious if I don't drink (I don't want anyone to think I'm prego). We plan on TTC after my period in May (so around May 12). Any other tips of what I should do before TTC?