I'm kind of worried

[Blue_star]

Okay I really have none to talk to about this so I found this website. I'm kinda nervous I don't know if this is normal or all in my head but I have this weird gut feeling i'm pregnant. I'm only 21 I'v missed my period and I feel more sensitiveness to smells also I'v been feeling really exhausted lately and going to the bathroom alot I had mild period cramps on and off a few weeks ago and no period. I'v been light headed once in awhile as well and I get mild headaches sometimes which I never used too. Also I'm getting really emotional sometimes I just feel like crying.

I slept with a boy i'v known for years a few times in August and September, although he never ejaculated in me.

I'v been doing some research since I missed my period and I read you could still get pregnant. Has anyone ever gotten pregnant in this circumstance ?

 

[carlandjane]

Cant say this relates to me. But if you have missed a period the only way to find out for sure is to take a pregnancy test.

 

[ModernMillie]

The answer will be in a pregnancy test.

 

[Leopard]

Pre-come is more potent than a full ejaculation; so yes it is possible. Get a test chikki.

 

[bambib]

Hate to say it but the withdrawal method isnt that reliable, im living proof of that! I'd do a test asap if i were you.

 

[blondi]

it is possible but rare,, my friend got pregnant this way,, and it sure sounds like you are, goodluck

 

[thelioncub]

Heya,

If you are already a few days late, then its def not too early to take a taste. The only advice I can give is to look very closely at the result though - or get one of those tests that spells it out! I took a cheap one that just has the lines on it about 4 days after I was due, and threw it away thinking the result was negative. It was only after I still didn't come on a few more days later that I thought to take another one and properly stare at it. My line was so faint that even the doctor couldn't be sure until about another week after that.

As everyone else has said though - yes, you could still be pregnant even if he didn't cum in you, and the signs certainly point in that way. But it really is impossible to guess. You may also find that the stress of worrying 'am I, aren't I?' is delaying your period, and you may be looking for signs that aren't there.

All in all, personally I would take a test to put my mind at rest.

 

[jennijunni]

If you have sex, you can be pregnant. I would take a test, and rule it either way, that way you can be sure, and get it off your mind. GL!! KUP!!

 

[mom22boys]

Sounds like you might be! I would take a test! BUT on the other had the withdrawl method worked for us for 10 years!

 

[babyhopes2010]

of course u can get pregnant! have u taken a test?hope u get the outcome u want x

 

[MaybeP]

Hey there,

It is still possible and actually if you orgasmed at any point he probably precame and the tightening of all your muscles actually propells the precum into the proper areas to facilitate you getting pregnant.
I would say its quite possible you are, so take a test, and I would buy a 2 pack, that way if you test and its negative and you still dont get your period then you can have a backup for a couple of days from now. Or you could just get the digital. I'm 21 as well and didn't believe it after 2 of the line tests so went and got a digital and that made me sure.
Is there a part of you almost hoping you are? I get that feeling because your posting on here about it instead of just going and buying a test - just make sure if it is positive you listen to your gut and not others Goodluck

 

[Blue_star]

Hey there,

It is still possible and actually if you orgasmed at any point he probably precame and the tightening of all your muscles actually propells the precum into the proper areas to facilitate you getting pregnant.
I would say its quite possible you are, so take a test, and I would buy a 2 pack, that way if you test and its negative and you still dont get your period then you can have a backup for a couple of days from now. Or you could just get the digital. I'm 21 as well and didn't believe it after 2 of the line tests so went and got a digital and that made me sure.
Is there a part of you almost hoping you are? I get that feeling because your posting on here about it instead of just going and buying a test - just make sure if it is positive you listen to your gut and not others Goodluck

lol no I don't want it to be positive i'm still in school as well (university) so i'm hoping it's not and i'm really nervous I can't sleep well since I missed it..I have this strange feeling I am BUT I could be totally wrong.. I'm kinda scared to get a test to he honest but i'm over two weeks late so i'm going to have to find a way to get one soon.

 

[babyhopes2010]

why are u waiting?

 

[5-a-side]

You really need to get a test and see. The stress of waiting can cause disruptions to your usual cycle.

 

[ahcigar1]

Only way to really tell is by taking a test. Also it is very possible to get pregnant off of precum so you could be. Also stress can cause you to miss your period as well and your mind can play tricks on you so your only choice really is to test to find out the truth. Good luck.

 

[MaybeP]

All it takes is in between classes going to any kind of convenience store, pharmacy, dollar store, grocery store - buying one - then going to the bathroom and waiting a couple of minutes. No one has to see you buy one, theres no one there to judge you, just you yourself and if your pregnant then your baby. I know it might seem like its somerthing where you have to have a friend with you in case it is positive so you can talk about it or she can make you feel better ect. but honestly its almost better if your by yourself. So you can make a conscious decision on how YOU feel on your own before discusssing it with others. I know its scary. I know you may not feel ready. I know you feel like it could screw you over at school. But it honestly doesn't have to. You're in Canada like me so you could take a year off school to stay home with the baby or even just next term (I know its not ideal) and then when youre ready you can get funding for school and because you have a dependent and youre a student you would automatically qualify for dollar a day daycare. You can still finish this term and then talk to the school and I am sure they would hold a spot for you so long as you're not on academic probation or anything. The government also has things such as the universal child care benefit where you receive $100 a month. You can file for unemployment and that can very much help you.

Just remember that they're are options other than running to the nearest clinic and 'taking care of it' (Just so you know, you're not allowed to say the A word on this forum or it could be locked) Theres always adoption as well. I am very much pro choice but I used my right to choice when I was 16 and still regret it. You're old enough to care for a child and you're clearly responsible enough if you can handle university.

Just please go buy a test so you can stop stressing and if it is positive PLEASE buy prenatal vitamins, even if you're not sure what you're going to do, just in case you decide to keep the baby. Folic acid is incredibly important to the development of a fetus, especially in the very early stages.

Good luck and I'm here if you need to talk at all.

 

[blondi]

If you are then you can always get some help,
i am 19 and i am pregnant, and i was like you at the begining, now i am so happy i kept him,, take the test you might not even be pregnant and going out of your mind for no reason,

 

[Blue_star]

Okay i'm not pregnant I want to have a baby but i'm finishing up my University first. When I do ever have a baby I will be back on this site for sure lol thanks guys.

 

[babyhopes2010]

all the best x