I'm out.....

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by scoobylyn66, Dec 10, 2009.

  1. scoobylyn66

    scoobylyn66 Well-Known Member

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    Had scan today and I just 'knew' it was going to be bad news. I should be 13 weeks today. They saw sac and no baby.

    I've had no bleeding, and feel very pregnant still with very painful nipples. I have to go back in 10 days just in case and if nothing then they will do a D&C on 22nd December. Am so devasted can't think straight.
     
  2. Viz1975

    Viz1975 Well-Known Member

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    Really sorry for your loss hun it is devastating take time to grieve and heal :hugs2:
     
  3. Poshie

    Poshie Mummy to Boy & Girl

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    So sorry hun :hugs: I had the same thing happen to me in July, it is truly heartbreaking. I ended up mc naturally the day after I found out. This is devestating, especially having to go through a D&C right before Christmas :hug: I would recommend the mc suppport thread if you haven't tried it already. Best of luck x
     
  4. Jordicia

    Jordicia Very proud Mummy of 3!

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    :hugs: Im so sorry hun xxx :flower:
     
  5. ladypotter

    ladypotter Three Girls!!!

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    So sorry you are going through this. I too have been in your shoes twice with no baby in the sac. Please take care of yourself! :hugs:
     
  6. Odd Socks

    Odd Socks Mummy to 2 girls.

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    MrsP Mummy to Eleanor & Henry

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    So sorry :hugs:
     
  8. Crypto1976

    Crypto1976 Guest

    I am sorry. I am thinking of you. XX
     
  9. babybeemac

    babybeemac Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear your sad news...keep strong. xxx
     
  10. Dora

    Dora Mum of 1, pregnant!

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    I am so sorry to hear this, take care
     
  11. lauralora

    lauralora Well-Known Member

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    horrible news, im so sorry xxxx
     
  12. Pretty Pistol

    Pretty Pistol Well-Known Member

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    I'm sorry hun...You can try again before you know it promise! <3 best of luck too you
     
  13. Adela Quested

    Adela Quested Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry - this happened to my SIL a few years back and she was absolutely devastated. She also had ongoing pregnancy symptoms which makes it even harder, I really feel for you. (I know you are not ready to think about it yet, but her next pregnancy went well and resulted in a healthy little boy.)

    What a dreadful experience for you. If I could do anything to make it better you know I would :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
     
  14. abbysbaby

    abbysbaby Guest

    sending hugs and comfort xxx
     
  15. emsiee

    emsiee Mum of 2

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    justmarried24 Cautiously pregnant

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    Thinking of you hun xxxxx
     
  17. hannahR

    hannahR Hollie aged three ttc no2

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    So sorry lovey. Huge hugs. xx
     
  18. zolwis

    zolwis Wife and mummy :)

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    So sorry to hear that . Try to be strong xxxxxxxxxxx
     
  19. scoobylyn66

    scoobylyn66 Well-Known Member

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    What makes it worse is bump has got bigger, uterus has grown, I have milk leaking slightly and I feel very pregnant with flutters.

    EPU said they will scan again in 10 days to see if bubs is hiding as my uterus is very tilted back but my gut is telling me it's the end. I had this dreadful feeling yesterday that it was all over.
     
  20. zolwis

    zolwis Wife and mummy :)

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    hang in there - you never know babe xxx good luck
     

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