I love my DH with all my heart and he is my best friend and soul mate. However, I have tried everything in the world to get him to come near me in a more 'intimate' way for weeks and he won't. He says it's not because he doesn't love me because he does, he just can't think about 'doing it' with me. I've tried EVERYTHING you can think of and we've had big chats this week about it and now he won't even talk about it anymore. What am I doing wrong? I've tried subtle, I've tried sexy, I've tried everything... is it me? Am I that hideous he can't bear to be with me in that way? I'm probably just hormonal and reading too much in to it I know. I just want back any level of intimacy. We used to at least 'fumble' but now nothing... I'm sorry I shouldn't mention it and feel free to ignore me. I just don't have anybody else I can talk to about this. Feeling very alone right now.