Well, I couldn't stand it anymore so at 12 dpo I tested this morning, BFN! I've been very emotional the last 3 days, and I usually don't have crying spells with PMS, so I took it as a SURE sign!!!! The real reason I tested is because my OH randomly made plans with a female friend of his who I absolutely don't like. THEN he got up extra early to go hang out with her today (he's notoriously late for plans with me, and we live together!!!) He'd told me about a year ago that she "inspires" him, and admitted to being attracted to her. Naturally I didn't like it, so there's always tension when he makes plans with her; and she knows I'm not happy about it, so I'm never invited. Last night they were talking on the phone, and I *swear* I wasn't listening, I just *heard* her say "well are you going to be in trouble?" I was watching the Red Sox game and thoroughly engrossed, but I picked up on that bit! (she's a loud talker) So then I was all "who the F are you bitch, I'm browsing TTC forums and doing everything I can do to get pregnant and you're making plans with MY man, on a weekend ALL DAY" .....in my head Anyway, I let it go, because I KNOW there isn't anything going on, and I didn't want to get into a "discussion" about it. So I tested this morning hoping a BFP would keep him home, and now I'm just disappointed and sad and jealous and it's my own damn fault. I need some pancakes!