I'm not sure what to do about my SD (sperm donor lol). We haven't spoken in about a month since a major bust up, although last week he made the effort and spoke to me on Facebook chat. It was just a polite conversation, I didn't want to come on too heavy, and the only thing regarding the baby that we discussed was that he wanted to be at the birth, so I said that he could (more so I can abuse him than anything else lol). However he's made no effort to talk to me since. It was always me that made the effort before, which is partly why we fell out (we were on the way to being on good terms before I discovered him saying nasty things about me and the situation and lying to me), so I don't want to go crawling back to him (metaphorically) but at the same time I'd rather at least be on semi good terms with him before I go into labour, as it'd be rather awkward at the hospital if we weren't. I also want to ensure whether he definitely is or isn't coming. I know what he's like, I don't want to be wondering where he is when I'm in masses of pain. I have 10 weeks to go, should I try to start rebuilding things now or just leave him to come to me??