I'm confudeled!! I don't know weather to find out the sex of Flump-A-Lump at my 20 weeks scan or wait until 30 weeks when I have a 4D scan?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I'd not find out at all if it was practical [everyones throwing boys stuff at me] The 4D's more for me and OH and don't think it's a necessity to find out but it's stressing me not knowing!! i'm impatient and don't like suprises!!!