Hi ya'll, I'm new to second tri, been stalking for awhile but haven't posted. Some background: DH and I live about 400 miles from my family, and go there about 3-4 times a year. We'll be going for five days next week for Christmas. Just got a message from my little brother this morning (he's 26, but lives at home), he knocked up his girlfriend, and they're due in March (I'm due in June). I'm really, really upset by this news. I know I should be happy, but up till now I thought mine would be the first grandchild. It kinda explains why my parents haven't cared much about my pregnancy, I called them yesterday, and they didn't ask any questions or want to know about my Dr's appointment (last Monday). I'm really hurt, and don't know how I'm going to get through Christmas, every time I think about it my eyes well up. Any advice? And yes, I know I'm rotten and I should be happy for them.