So sorry about your bad news KL. I feel your pain. I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure in January, at age 30. I'm still getting periods (and appear to be ovulating) but my cycles are getting shorter and shorter, and my periods are light and super-short. It's like things are drying up! So far we have not identified a cause - just bad genes I guess.
Has anyone recommended you take DHEA? My RE has me on 75mg of pharmaceutical-grade DHEA a day. It's supposed to boost egg quality in women with diminished ovarian reserve and potentially with POF, since quality is said to decline with quantity.