Singlesister
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Hello mums and dads, I am currently in a world that doesn't seem very real. I am in my first trimester myself and partner were so excited, until last week when he decided our planned pregnancy was too soon (we were so lucky to catch first month of ttc) that living together was something he couldn't do. 6 weeks pregnant and he tells me via TEXT all of the above and that he is not ready for baby, he's not excited, he's not happy and not looking forward to this. To some degree I felt a twinge of respect for his honesty in telling me these emotions but when I tell him that I release him from the commitments he has made to our unborn child. I have no fear of raising a child by myself as I know I can and the other option personally is not an option as I want and love this child! (not even classed as a baby yet and he's gone). So after I state he's released and not to contact myself again, he reinstates the fact he did also say baby will be ours and he will love and support it, that baby is also his and I can not with hold baby from him. He is making a solid statement of not wanting our child but at the same time he is claiming he wants to have equality in raising them. If their was no question of just being my rejection I would accept and put aside as that is nothing to do with my blueberry (baby) but he clearly states he doesn't want baby, baby is a burden to him. I am so scared his rejection once involved in baby's life will scar them that I wish he had either A; just rejected me or B; Agreed to walk away and let me deal with this disaster any advice or words of wisdom would be so appreciated. I am trying not to stress I have told him he is making me ever so stressed and not to contact me. At least he has left me be for now, how long I do not know; a month, two, after baby born?! I have no intention of making contact myself my health is more important right now