This is how i had it explained to me today.
IF you are 2-3 cms dialated, they do not need to put in the hormone tablet to soften you up, and can go in straight to breaking ur waters and putting you on the drip
IF you arent dilated, you can have up to 2 hormone tablets a day and it can take 2 day to get you there
My hospital policy is people can not stay with you out of visiting hours unless you are in extablished labour, ie 3/4 cms dialated and having regular contractions
So it all depends on the inital internal examination hunny and i supose ur hospitals visiting procedure