infertility feel like ending it all

[emz-amy]

title says it all really i cant go on keep trying had enough everyone around me is pregnant cant go on any more my lil girl is nearly six and keeps asking for a baby brother or sister ife is so unfair

 

[readyformore]

 

[kaye]

so sorry you feel like that.

its awful ttc, i know how you feel. weve been trying for 2 years and i got told yesterday to lose 4 stone!

maybe a break might be worth considering whilst you feel like this

 

[MrsB09]

Definitely take at least a month off & just chill. Only have sex when you want to & use contraception. Get a massage. Play silly games with your daughter and laugh from your belly. Then next month we'll be here to cheer you on again. Infertility sucks x

 

[readyformore]

. Infertility sucks x

This was a lightbult moment for me!

I've been saying ttc sucks. But, it's more than that. It's infertility.

 

[choccielover]

title says it all really i cant go on keep trying had enough everyone around me is pregnant cant go on any more my lil girl is nearly six and keeps asking for a baby brother or sister ife is so unfair

I so know how you feel. I've been ttc for about 5 years now without even a sniff of a pregnancy (not even for one day). We're actively trying again now after "giving up" for a about a year. I was waiting for that miracle moment that everyone tells you about when you "stop trying" and all of a sudden you're pregnant....yes well, it didn't happen for us.

I feel blessed to have my B&B friends who I can turn to when I'm feeling a bit low. We're all here for each other as I am here for you to give some big

Also if one more person tells me that if I stop thinking about it so much then it will happen I will either hysterically laugh or scream lol.

xx

 

[choccielover]

so sorry you feel like that.

its awful ttc, i know how you feel. weve been trying for 2 years and i got told yesterday to lose 4 stone!

maybe a break might be worth considering whilst you feel like this

Kaye, I have to lose 4 stone too....it sucks

I'm trying Zumba classes a couple of times a week but the only thing is because I'm so hungry when I've finished I tend to eat more than I normally would

xx

 

[JDH1982]

[/QUOTE]

Also if one more person tells me that if I stop thinking about it so much then it will happen I will either hysterically laugh or scream lol.

xx[/QUOTE]


I too know exactly how this feels. I had a friend who 'accidently' fell pregnant last month say this to me and I seriously felt like slapping her!

Hugs to all of us x

 

[emz-amy]

Thank u so much for ur kind replys us girls will just have to keep goin a? Maybe one day a miracle might happen for us x

 

[ami1985]

hugs chick its awful i know how u feel, but be thankful for ur little girl at least u have that..things could be a lot worse u could have no children, u are truly blessed. Have a month or two off and just enjoy yaself then get back on the TTC wagon like u never left xx

 

[emz-amy]

im sorry for starting this post i was insensitve to u girls that havnt even got one child and yes i am blessed to have one already but i just cant help how i feel i was very very ill with perpural pcyshosis after i gave birth so i was robbed of the first few years of her lfe really dont remember much at all sorry for rambling on x

 

[readyformore]

hugs chick its awful i know how u feel, but be thankful for ur little girl at least u have that..things could be a lot worse u could have no children, u are truly blessed. xx

Okay, I guess this is my sore point.

Yes, it does help to keep into perspective that you already have a child/children.

But, it could always be worse for you too. You could have needed a hysterectomy, you could have had both of your ovaries removed, etc.
I know that you were trying to be supportive, but listing what someone should be grateful for, just isn't that helpful.

Even if we have children, we are still allowed to be sad that we can't get pregnant. We can still be mad that we are going through infertility.

Sorry, I guess my comment isn't necessarily directed toward you. But having 3 children already, you have no idea how many times I hear exactly what you just said.

I guess it would be the equivilent of someone telling you to relax and it will happen. It's worthy of a good scream.

 

[ami1985]

know where ur coming from, we all need a rant and each and every on of us do feel exactly like u on the TTC wagon, chin up chick it will happen eventually just as it will with all of us TTC, keep the faith and ull get that lil bro or sis for your baba

Baby dust for u

 

[ami1985]

im sorry for starting this post i was insensitve to u girls that havnt even got one child and yes i am blessed to have one already but i just cant help how i feel i was very very ill with perpural pcyshosis after i gave birth so i was robbed of the first few years of her lfe really dont remember much at all sorry for rambling on x

Sorry chick didnt mean to come across abrupt just meant to try and reassure u, ull get there eventually xx

 

[Sophe]

Poor you, I have felt so very low myself at times, it is heartbreaking you are not alone in feeling this way. I don't have any children but I guess having one doesn't help you as its hurting your child too so its still very very sad for you. I hope you get that BFP you so much deserve, I hope all of us ladies do. (((HUGS)))

 

[Evon47]

I'm sorry u feel like that but spare a thought to some of us who are still waiting for our first bfp.

 

[LizMcD]

Sending hugs - we all know exactly how you feel. It's the only subject on my mind all day every day!!

I want so much to bring a little baba into this world xx

 

[kaye]

I feel for every single lady on here who is waiting for there BFP, suffering with various issues and struggles to get there.

We have been trying for over 2 years. However yes i have an 8 yr old daughter from when i was very young, from previous partner and i was all alone and scared. I am now married and me & my hubby want a child together and i want to experience the journey with a partner and not be young frightened and scared.

I know people are waiting for the first child and honestly i cannot send them enough luck & babydust. But please beleive me it doesnt hurt us any less not being able to conceive, we have awful days too.

Its made me quite mad that people think becuase you already have a child you are not suffering right now. This lady who orginally posted the thread was having a crap day and needing some understanding and help, not to be told well think about us you have one!!!!

Sorry rant over lol

 

[mg80]

*

 

[Sophe]

I always wanted 3 kids, doesn't look like thats ever going to happen now, feel like my life plan has been shattered into little pieces and blown away.