Melisa1985
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So I noticed during my pregnancy people are so freaken insensitive towards pregnant women. It's pissing me off so bad. Some of the worst things I heard are.
- "What do you have twins in there?" (pissed me off so bad, but I responded with a smile, and said "yes it's two baby girls...meanwhile im only having one baby and the woman that said it to me was aware of it)
- "You got fat" ( a 17 yr old said to me, which pissed me off so bad where are the manners??...my hubby is like she is young can't process what she is saying, I'm sorry but i dont buy that, at 17 I knew right from wrong and not to disrespectful toward people like that...Pregnant or not, you do not tell someone they got fat...so she pissed me off and i said "yeah maybe I did, but im pregnant, whats ur excuse for getting fat" meanwhile my mom is telling me i shouldnt have said that, really! im so fed up with people and thinking they can say whatever the hell they please to )
-"Your roots grew out" (oh yes i noticed when i looked myself in the mirror this morning, but dont wanna dye them bc of chemicals, I'M PREGNANT FOR GODS SAKES, LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE)
- "Oh you are really showing now" (my response to that was, of course I'm! im having a baby next month)
- " aren't you scared that a babies head and arms and everything is gonna come out of your vagina"....(yeah im sure that was something that my friend should have said to me when my due date is approaching and she sees im pregnant and i believe im aware of where the baby will come out, no need to point it out. people are soooooooooo ANNOYING)
SOOOOOO SICK OF PEOPLE WITH THEIR RUDE/ INSENSITIVE COMMMENTS AND QUESTIONS. What is wrong with people? don't they understand a pregnant women goes through enough as it is, does she really need all this. I feel like if people don't have anything nice to say, they shouldn't say anything at all. & I can't believe all these comments are coming from other women, some that have been through pregnancy and have children and know what we are going through. It's really disgusting.
What are some things that have been said to you?
- "What do you have twins in there?" (pissed me off so bad, but I responded with a smile, and said "yes it's two baby girls...meanwhile im only having one baby and the woman that said it to me was aware of it)
- "You got fat" ( a 17 yr old said to me, which pissed me off so bad where are the manners??...my hubby is like she is young can't process what she is saying, I'm sorry but i dont buy that, at 17 I knew right from wrong and not to disrespectful toward people like that...Pregnant or not, you do not tell someone they got fat...so she pissed me off and i said "yeah maybe I did, but im pregnant, whats ur excuse for getting fat" meanwhile my mom is telling me i shouldnt have said that, really! im so fed up with people and thinking they can say whatever the hell they please to )
-"Your roots grew out" (oh yes i noticed when i looked myself in the mirror this morning, but dont wanna dye them bc of chemicals, I'M PREGNANT FOR GODS SAKES, LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE)
- "Oh you are really showing now" (my response to that was, of course I'm! im having a baby next month)
- " aren't you scared that a babies head and arms and everything is gonna come out of your vagina"....(yeah im sure that was something that my friend should have said to me when my due date is approaching and she sees im pregnant and i believe im aware of where the baby will come out, no need to point it out. people are soooooooooo ANNOYING)
SOOOOOO SICK OF PEOPLE WITH THEIR RUDE/ INSENSITIVE COMMMENTS AND QUESTIONS. What is wrong with people? don't they understand a pregnant women goes through enough as it is, does she really need all this. I feel like if people don't have anything nice to say, they shouldn't say anything at all. & I can't believe all these comments are coming from other women, some that have been through pregnancy and have children and know what we are going through. It's really disgusting.
What are some things that have been said to you?