I really thought I was the only one with these fears!
I start every morning out by laying in bed until I feel movement. He usually kicks me in the bladder just after I wake up, so on the mornings where he's quiet, I start obsessing about what could have happened in there while I was sleeping. If my need to pee is too strong, I'll get up and have a wee and then immediately make a cup of coffee, as the caffeine ALWAYS gets him moving! I'm just so scared he's going to die in my tummy and we don't even have a name for him yet.
I also worry that something might be physically wrong with him when he comes out. I've only had two scans, and the anatomy scan just wasn't up to my expectations. The tech never explained much about what she was looking at and the picture always seemed so blurry (like she needed to use more of that goop)... so I worry that she missed something and that we're in for the shock of our lives when he's born. Like he'll have a third eyeball or a crooked face or something bizarre.
I REALLY wish there was somewhere close by that did private scans, because at this point, I could really use the reassurance.
This is totally dumb... but I'm also scared he won't be as good looking as my first son.
DS was adorable from the day he was born, even with his little cone head from the birth canal. And he just keeps getting cuter as the days go by. He's so cute that people stop us at the grocery store to let us know that he's a doll. I can't help but think sometimes ... what if this one comes out ugly?!
I'm sure he'll still be beautiful to me, though, and I am going to love him even if he's born with a unibrow and a crooked nose.
my husband will also be changing jobs in march and we'll be moving in feb/march so it's like .. 
