Hb.x
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Hi ladies,
I need a bit of advice. Me and OH have been together for 3 years, and are due our first LO in December . As much as I love him, he is 28 going on 12 haha!! Anyway, we have 5 weddings next year, which I am stressing out about for financial reasons. I will be on maternity leave (£137 per week) rather than full time wages. I will be staying at home with LO so no child care costs, however am stressing about one income. Not just because we have 5 weddings, but we also are in the process if buying a house, paying for our own wedding and providing for our baby.
Butttt OH has just announced he has just booked a stag do abroad (Ibiza), which has costs £500 for A WEEK, therefore will need to save £1000 spending money.
I am fuming, because he doesn't seem to understand that we can't really afford it and our child should come first!! The thing that annoys me most is that he IS BEST MAN at this wedding, therefore he planned it .
Grrrrr I'm so stressed about this!! I am conscious that this is very likely raging hormones that are getting to me, but does this seem crazy to anyone else? How would you deal with this situation? I think I'll just need to deal with it, but my goddddd how immature!!
Sorry for such a long rant ladies, but if anyone has any advice at all I'd really appreciate it, even if it is to tell me I'm crazy lol!!
I need a bit of advice. Me and OH have been together for 3 years, and are due our first LO in December . As much as I love him, he is 28 going on 12 haha!! Anyway, we have 5 weddings next year, which I am stressing out about for financial reasons. I will be on maternity leave (£137 per week) rather than full time wages. I will be staying at home with LO so no child care costs, however am stressing about one income. Not just because we have 5 weddings, but we also are in the process if buying a house, paying for our own wedding and providing for our baby.
Butttt OH has just announced he has just booked a stag do abroad (Ibiza), which has costs £500 for A WEEK, therefore will need to save £1000 spending money.
I am fuming, because he doesn't seem to understand that we can't really afford it and our child should come first!! The thing that annoys me most is that he IS BEST MAN at this wedding, therefore he planned it .
Grrrrr I'm so stressed about this!! I am conscious that this is very likely raging hormones that are getting to me, but does this seem crazy to anyone else? How would you deal with this situation? I think I'll just need to deal with it, but my goddddd how immature!!
Sorry for such a long rant ladies, but if anyone has any advice at all I'd really appreciate it, even if it is to tell me I'm crazy lol!!