irritated!!!

[Armywife84]

I agree. I think im gonna stay in ltttc too. ive been going into the tww and see women posting the same thing over and over. I try to give advice but i get attitude cause its not what they want to hear. ive been ttc with oh for 3 yrs. and had 1 mc. so i know how symptom spotting goes, and i have had all of them alot. just dont want these women to be crushed if af show up, but since im not encoureging there symptoms im a downer. oh well

I know what you mean..I stay off the 2WW too. Symptom spotting in my opinion is useless. You can do it all you want, some of it's in your head, but at the end of the day it boils down to what that says. Whether they want to admit it or not.

Although I symptom spotted this month, how stupid of me because I just ended up disappointed as usual. On a positive note, I'm lucky that I have a regular period. Try to keep that in mind.

 

[Armywife84]

I was LTTTC (4 years) before I conceived my son in 2009. I come in here, even though I am PG again, because I like to offer advice and hope for women who are going through anything similar to what I did (I had moderate endo, a lap and failed IVF).
I totally understand where you're coming from and even though my pregnancies have not been easy, I don't moan (even off the forum). I feel incredibly lucky and I try my best to enjoy the experience of being pregnant.
All the best with you journey hun x

Ps. So sorry about the ticker

Hey thanks Rach, for understanding and not being judgmental! It's also very nice to see a former LTTCer who still remembers what it's like to be in our shoes.

 

[rachel_f_]

I was LTTTC (4 years) before I conceived my son in 2009. I come in here, even though I am PG again, because I like to offer advice and hope for women who are going through anything similar to what I did (I had moderate endo, a lap and failed IVF).
I totally understand where you're coming from and even though my pregnancies have not been easy, I don't moan (even off the forum). I feel incredibly lucky and I try my best to enjoy the experience of being pregnant.
All the best with you journey hun x

Ps. So sorry about the ticker

Hey thanks Rach, for understanding and not being judgmental! It's also very nice to see a former LTTCer who still remembers what it's like to be in our shoes.

I agree, thanks for your positive input. I have nothing against pregnant women! Its pregnant women that bitch and moan that get on my nerves! And to reply to a couple of the earlier posts where women have said that some women have terrible pregnancies and serious problems, I wasn't referring to these women, I was referring to the women that moan about morning sickness and weight gain etc!!!

Rach: have a happy and healthy 9 months

Xxxxx

 

[ami1985]

I know the feeling, vast majority of my friends have children and one of them was on the pill for 8 years, came off it and was preganant the first month i love the bairn to bits am just so jelous of it never being my turn, xx

 

[rosebud_01_99]

hi ,

i also pay no attention to ladies in my life who moan abt pg , they dont know what its like to lttc and have no idea what im going through, but it annoys me when women who have no idea come on to lttc boards online and complain knowing what the rest of us are going through, its sorta our little haven away from the real world for a while where we like to feel safe to vent our anger and disappointment at what life has dealt us.

at the beginning of my ttc journey i used to go to other boards a lot but now at this stage i stick to boards like this for support. i was dealt another blow this week when i went for my fet scan and my lining is too thin so im held back a week to see if it thickens, first time ive had this prob, each time a cycle i seem to run into a new problem to add to the list of probs i have , so ive been in a very sad humor the last few days when i just feel the whole world is against me.

thanks for listening

rosebud

 

[readyformore]

rosebud

 

[Sophe]

hi ,

i also pay no attention to ladies in my life who moan abt pg , they dont know what its like to lttc and have no idea what im going through, but it annoys me when women who have no idea come on to lttc boards online and complain knowing what the rest of us are going through, its sorta our little haven away from the real world for a while where we like to feel safe to vent our anger and disappointment at what life has dealt us.

at the beginning of my ttc journey i used to go to other boards a lot but now at this stage i stick to boards like this for support. i was dealt another blow this week when i went for my fet scan and my lining is too thin so im held back a week to see if it thickens, first time ive had this prob, each time a cycle i seem to run into a new problem to add to the list of probs i have , so ive been in a very sad humor the last few days when i just feel the whole world is against me.

thanks for listening

rosebud

we are all here for you

 

[Rach27]

Thanks ladies

Since having my son in 2010, I have met more people who have had difficulties with conception and pregnancy than those who got preggo at the drop of a hat. In my circle of friends (which is quite large now!) we have had LTTTC, IVF (she had 3 tries before success), ectopic rupture, 4 pre-term labours requiring time in NICU, meconium aspiration, true knot in the umbilical cord, secondary infertility and numerous miscarriages. It's funny as I always got the impression 'most' people seem to get pregnant easily but my actual experience is the opposite and problems / complications are much more common than I thought.

Have to admit that I don't even open posts about morning sickness LOL!!

All the best to you ladies. I hope you get your BFPs very, very soon xxx

 

[Armywife84]

hi ,

i also pay no attention to ladies in my life who moan abt pg , they dont know what its like to lttc and have no idea what im going through, but it annoys me when women who have no idea come on to lttc boards online and complain knowing what the rest of us are going through, its sorta our little haven away from the real world for a while where we like to feel safe to vent our anger and disappointment at what life has dealt us.

at the beginning of my ttc journey i used to go to other boards a lot but now at this stage i stick to boards like this for support. i was dealt another blow this week when i went for my fet scan and my lining is too thin so im held back a week to see if it thickens, first time ive had this prob, each time a cycle i seem to run into a new problem to add to the list of probs i have , so ive been in a very sad humor the last few days when i just feel the whole world is against me.

thanks for listening

rosebud

You remind me of one of my infertile friends..3 miscarriages, 2 failed IVFs, and as she was starting the paperwork for surrogacy, DH backed out on it. She has issues with her uterine lining and they've been hacking at it for 7yrs.

I hope that she can conceive and keep her baby soon. You too, Rosebud.