Thank you for wording that so nicely! I feel the same but DH is sooo stuobborn and he just pops off at the mouth when I try to talk to him. Telling me that he has a stomach ache sometimes but he doesnt stay home from work and lay around all day..uuuggghhh i want to smack him!
I looked at my husband my first pregnancy and told him if your in you in and that means for the good and the bad which means if i need help youll be getting off your ass and helping me and if its going to be a problem i can pack my stuff and leave tomorrow because im not taking care of two children when im only having one.
The way i see it were supposed to be a couple wich means were supposed to work together and help eachother because if these kinds of things go one sided for to long resentment builds up and your just looking at a future disaster later on. I also wanted to know that once the baby came that it wouldnt be all on me because its not like i got myself pregnant. I am not my husbands mother nor do i wish to be treated as such.