hi girls! i dont know if its me being hormonal or what but i am so sick of my OH at the moment! he just dosent seem interested in us one bit! for example this week we have gone without gas (we have a metre) coz we cant really afford it so ive been bathing our son in the sink using hot water from the kettle and ive been having cold showers. But for some reason he has spent 30 pounds in petrol???!!! i know he uses it for work but for god sake hes only there three times a week and takes him half an hour to get there! the rest of it has been used to visit his mummy and friend and brothers! but if ever i need to be taken somewhere i have to nag my arse off! for some reason nearly every week his brother and his brothers daughter has been staying at ours once a week so him and his brother can play darts in the kitchen or play on the playstation (they are 24 and 25!!!). Last night he asked if they could come down and stay the night i point blankly refused ( i cant stand his brother hes horrible to me never thanks me when i make him his tea or says hello or bye to me) in the end i gave in just to avoid a row! i am 30 weeks pregnant i want to relax not look after his daughter plus our son and cook and clean! i want to wear my pjs round the house and not feel uncomfy about it! My oh borrowed 20 pounds off his brother while he was down last night (i figured it was to get us by till we get paid on sunday) so my OH bought me and our son a takeaway (i know its bad and not healthy but it was late) and we should of had 15 pounds left but oh no he put 10 pounds in his car!!! His brother also said hed give him petrol money for picking him up letting him stay and dropping him off (he lives at the other side of the city) what did he give him.....A MEESLY 2POUNDS!!!!!! Also his daughter is a little brat such a bad influence on my son i caught her punching him last night (shes 6 months older then him) My OH isnt that interested in looking for baby stuff ive had to do it and organise what were getting! i am so excited and when im talking about what i want to get he just looks at me with a glazed look! i cant face confronting him because i get nothing back! im so upset right now! its like he just dosent seem to care unless its about someone else! hel happily do things for his mum or brothers and even his friends but not me!! im sorry to rant its just i have nobody to tell and cant face another row!