xQuinnx
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I've posted something similar before but can't get this out of my head!
My daughter is 10 months old, I had a traumatic time during labour but have just started to feel like I'm ok with what happened.
I keep thinking about babies, having another baby, how exciting it would all be, how wonderful it would be to have another member of our family, how nice it would be be (maybe) for my daughter to have a sibling. On the other hand I don't feel quite ready to be pregnant again and sometimes I feel terrified of having another child because I know what's coming if that makes sense?
Is the decision to have another child a logical one? As in you make a decision on pros/cons (as well as wanting one of course!) as opposed to just 'knowing' it's what you want?!
Before getting pregnant with my daughter me and my husband 'knew' we wanted a child and that even though it would be the toughest thing ever it was 100% the right decision. He would love another child and would like to try now if it wasn't for the fact we had just bought a house and our finances aren't great however I have a feeling if it was only up to him he would only postpone trying for another 6 months.
I feel lost and scared of making the wrong decision :-/ anyone else in the same boat?
My daughter is 10 months old, I had a traumatic time during labour but have just started to feel like I'm ok with what happened.
I keep thinking about babies, having another baby, how exciting it would all be, how wonderful it would be to have another member of our family, how nice it would be be (maybe) for my daughter to have a sibling. On the other hand I don't feel quite ready to be pregnant again and sometimes I feel terrified of having another child because I know what's coming if that makes sense?
Is the decision to have another child a logical one? As in you make a decision on pros/cons (as well as wanting one of course!) as opposed to just 'knowing' it's what you want?!
Before getting pregnant with my daughter me and my husband 'knew' we wanted a child and that even though it would be the toughest thing ever it was 100% the right decision. He would love another child and would like to try now if it wasn't for the fact we had just bought a house and our finances aren't great however I have a feeling if it was only up to him he would only postpone trying for another 6 months.
I feel lost and scared of making the wrong decision :-/ anyone else in the same boat?