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mamaofthree
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Dear all,
My fives year old has been 'difficult' since birth but i just thought him to be strong willed, however he recently started school and they started to notice he is very withdrawn and unhappy too!
From a small baby he cried non stop, has had night terrors, is moody and withdrawn and never wants to mix especially in large groups, or some days is so hyperactive that he shouts in other childrens faces and pushes them over! If i take hime to soft play he says hes tired, and wont join in with his siblings. If i take him home he will lie on the sofa with his favourite blanket and barely speak. Lately his night terrors are worse, and he has started wiping poo in the walls!!(soz too much info) he clenches his fists, and grits his teeth while talking, and bites his nails down to the quick which seems to me like anxiety.
He seems so frustrated with life, and is never happy....and i just cannot get him to understand 'sorry' when he hurts his brother or sister. I feel people are mis understanding him and am so worried, but my hv is useless and brushes it off!
We have a new baby coming and he has just started school but this is not a behaviour change, more that others are now noticing it too. Could he be Autistic or have add?
Thankyou so much for listening! x x x
My fives year old has been 'difficult' since birth but i just thought him to be strong willed, however he recently started school and they started to notice he is very withdrawn and unhappy too!
From a small baby he cried non stop, has had night terrors, is moody and withdrawn and never wants to mix especially in large groups, or some days is so hyperactive that he shouts in other childrens faces and pushes them over! If i take hime to soft play he says hes tired, and wont join in with his siblings. If i take him home he will lie on the sofa with his favourite blanket and barely speak. Lately his night terrors are worse, and he has started wiping poo in the walls!!(soz too much info) he clenches his fists, and grits his teeth while talking, and bites his nails down to the quick which seems to me like anxiety.
He seems so frustrated with life, and is never happy....and i just cannot get him to understand 'sorry' when he hurts his brother or sister. I feel people are mis understanding him and am so worried, but my hv is useless and brushes it off!
We have a new baby coming and he has just started school but this is not a behaviour change, more that others are now noticing it too. Could he be Autistic or have add?
Thankyou so much for listening! x x x