Why is it that the first question anyone asks me is "is he STTN?" If I tell you that he is STTN does that make him a good baby? If I tell you that he wakes up a few times to eat does that make me a bad mother? I really hate this question. I know that STTN is like the holy grail of motherhood but I simply have no expectations that my baby will STTN. And why should he? It's perfectly normal behavior for a baby to wake up. I hate it when people compare their baby to my baby and say "oh mine slept through the night from day 1" as if that means something good. Personally if my baby STTN from day 1 I'd be concerned. Sorry for the rant, I'm just so sick of people holding babies to adult standards. Babies cry, that doesn't make him a bad baby. Babies need to be comforted, that doesn't make me a bad mother. Babies wake up at night sometimes, that doesn't mean I'm not making enough milk for him.