Is it a good idea? :(

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by christal85, Nov 18, 2011.

  1. christal85

    christal85 Well-Known Member

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    Lately I've been super depressed and not sleeping, this pregnancy is kicking my butt and I feel so alone and isolated.

    I'm having a hard time getting along with my BF and we live in a one bedroom apartment, we have no space! (moving soon thank god!) Everyday I feel like I'm being meaner and meaner and that he's being more distant because of my attitude. :(

    I decided that I was going to go stay with my dad for a few days, just to see if I could get some sleep and feel better. I'm worried thou that it will only make things worse, or that i will hurt his feelings... not sure what to do, if i go i will feel better with some solitude and time to myself but i will also feel bad if i hurt his feelings. is it a good idea? or now that we are going to have a family should i be trying harder to get along? I love him more then the world and can never see my life with out him but right now i just cant stand him lol

    anyone else just want to get away from these freaking hormones and be there self again?
     
  2. xpatchx

    xpatchx Wife, Mummy and pregnant!

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    I think that if you explain to him in the right way, he will realise that it's best for you to get some rest, and have a bit of time apart. I've spent a few weeks at my dad's before (not at the same time, a few days here and there - he lives in France) and things have been 100x better when I've gotten back! I missed him so much that it was lovely seeing him again :)

    x
     
  3. CAOILIN

    CAOILIN Well-Known Member

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    As long as ur boyfriend understands that u just want some space to chill on ur own then maybe it will be a good thing? Refreshing even, it might be what u need.

    Im at university away from my mum and boyfriend, only told my very close friend up here and I live on my own I feel really lonely and quite depressed too :( its not like I dont see anyone though I think the hormones do play a big part...

    Good luck xxx
     
  4. Rigi.kun

    Rigi.kun Mum to Teddy

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    Some women find that sleeping solo in the first trimester is a must. It's one of those things you're going to have to sit down and talk to him about it. Sum up your ideas and his and both of you make a decision
     
  5. Nadialew

    Nadialew Well-Known Member

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    i have friend who actually can't stand at the sight of her husband. And they had to sleep in different room throughout her entire pregnancy. It's just the hormones. After she delivered, everything was fine again.
    So maybe you can just make him understand. ALL the best!
     

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