Is it just me or would you be angry? OH rant! POintless really but need to vent

[EMYJC]

Tell me this, am I wrong to be fuming that OH didnt get in til 630 this morning?! I am absolutely livid!

 

[xxxleeleexxx]

i would be too hun xxx

 

[EMYJC]

I am so disgusted. Fair enough he works 6 days a week at the moment but its more for Lucas that I am upset as he hasnt seen him really at all for 2 weeks and promised last night was gonna be home early. Its irresponsible and he's acting like a child. He'll be in bed all day now.

 

[xxxleeleexxx]

wake him up just to piss him off then, i would, its not fair that we look after the babies all day every day and they think that just because they had a late night they get to sleep all day. would u be aloud to sleep all day if u came in at 6:30am?! xxx

 

[Jchihuahua]

I would be fuming hun .

 

[AP]

I'd be fuming too. He works 6 days yet has the energy to stay out that late as well? Cheek of it!

 

[sophxx]

id of put the key on the door so he couldnt get in! it wouldnt happen it my house the latest hes been in once is 5 and hes never done it again after the ear ache he got and tht was way before the baby x

 

[sarahchops86]

go in, hand ur son to him and have a nice LOOOOONNNNG bath with some music on!

 

[Buffy71]

what a selfish pig.

 

[EMYJC]

Thanks everyone! It's not the first time he's done this. I'm tempted to go for good! X

 

[Kate&Lucas]

I'd grind him into dog food!

 

[lauram22]

Omg I would be so angry!! Where is open till that time?? My oh came in at 4 once (everywhere round here shuts at 2) we wernt married or had bubs but I went ape shit lol I'm quite harsh that way but he's never done it again x

 

[Adela Quested]

If my OH did that without it being arranged previously (ie for a special event that he wanted to go to and I agreed), he would be SO sorry afterwards! The way I see it, we are co-parents and that means taking joint responsibility for looking after our son. I am not just the live-in babysitter, I am his co-parent and that means that we make child care decisions TOGETHER on weekends. You are quite right to be pissed off, he is being irresponsible by staying out all night and just assuming you will pick up the slack, without even asking!

PS your son is beautiful ... can't believe his daddy would be happy to miss out on spending a day with him

 

[Noodles]

Go wake him up! Pop Lucas on the bed and tell him that his baby misses his Daddy and wants kisses and cuddles. Guilts trips very rarly fail!

 

[RainbowDrop_x]

I'd be going off the head!! I'd be LIVID. I hope to god you didn't leave him in bed all day??!!!

 

[Adela Quested]

Aargh, oops, sorry!

 

[PepsiChic]

wake him up. My husband works nights and when he gets home he wants to play comptuer games, which i have nor problem with. I ended up making a curfew because he would never keep track of time and come to bed at like 8am!

well 5am was his curfew and whenever he wants on his days off...BUT he has to be up by noon. Thats 7 hours of sleep if he goes to bed at 5, and less if he chooses to stay up longer and then he has to deal with it because he brought it on himself.

 

[OULINA]

how can u not be mad ...my hubby just went out to meet up with his friends and is gonna stay untill 11:30pm and im mad !! didnt show it but im mad !!! why is everything always so easy for them and never for us ?...
since ive had my little girl i havent gone out once and even if i did he wouldnt stay home ... what can i say ..cant with them cant without

 

[bathbabe]

men get it easy! Think they can pick parenting up whenever they like! X

 

[maddiwatts19]

i'd be fuming..!