Hi girls, I guess I'm mostly writing this because I am feeling sorry for myself so sorry if I sound melodramatic...... Firstly, let me say that I am overjoyed to be 14 weeks tomorrow and finally off to 2nd Trimester!! Will be sad to go from 1st, but look forward to seeing you all over there. Now....I am getting really paranoid that I am turning into a mega-bitch. My hubby and I seem to have just argued this week. I know my hormones are raging, and I have given up smoking etc. but I really thought I was holding it all together well considering?? I am soooooooooo excited about this baby and it means the world to me, and I have been exceptionally lucky so far, as seem to have (touch wood) managed to avoid m/s pretty much. But my hubby just seems to be being awful to me. He doesn't cut me any slack and seems to think I'm just being pathetic if I ask him to maybe lift something heavy for me or if I pass on certain foods. He has been really sharp with me too. Tonight I got home from work at about 7.45ish. I am tired (surprise, surprise) and often feel like I can't be bothered to do anything, and the moment I walked through the door he starts throwing things out of the fridge and leaping down my throat about things. He didn't even ask how I was or if I had a nice day So, I got straight on with dinner (which he then complained about - saying dinner wasn't good enough and going on and on about it) then I cleaned up and cleared away HIS beer cans and did some washing etc. etc. And he just seemed to get more and more horrible. Then he snapped when I asked him if he could take something out into the garden for me whilse I was washing up and he was sitting on his arse. He went mad that 'he wants to sit down - HE'S been at work all day....yadda, yadda'......Eh?? What about me?? I am up at 6.30am too. I have to walk the dog and go to work for a 9-10 hour day every day too!! The worst thing was....He went to bed in a huff....and his phone beeped. So yes, I admit, I had a look. There was a message from the guy he works on site with and it was a follow up to a conversation where my hubby had been messaging his friend saying that he was watching a blonde getting dressed.... Now, I know I'm probably over-reacting, but that made me feel like crap. Perving on other women, while I'm feeling extra fat, spotty and unatractive just didn't seem like a nice thing Am I over-reacting??