Is there anyone here from Dorset, UK?

Discussion in 'Baby Club' started by tiggerpony, Nov 20, 2011.

  1. tiggerpony

    tiggerpony Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2011
    Messages:
    1,387
    Likes Received:
    0
    I don't know if this is the right place to ask but was wandering if anyone here was from my area and fancied meeting for a coffe with our lo's? I feel so crap recentley and like none of my current friends really understand what I'm going through. I do have a couple of friends with babies but other than on the phone they are really to busy to meet up. I am about to have quite major surgery due to the fistula caused by the 4th degree tear, just before xmas and it sucks. I am so fed up of everything and I think my "mild" PND has gotton worse, because (I know I am going to prob get slated for being honest but right about now, I don't care?) right now I am on here, typing, crying while my 14 week ld baby girkl is crying because her gums hurt (I assume?). I pick her up and cuddle her, she cries. I've given her some teething gel and she still cries. She has had some calpol and been winded, she still crying. She has been crying now in her bouncy chair for 35 mins - and I'm sat here, just staring at her. I don't feel anything either. Apart from annoyance that she is crying and I can't stop her. On top of this, I am ment to be packing because we are moving soon (locally). I went to my doctor and he diagonsed me with PND but said it was mild. So, right now, why do I feel like I want to walk out the flat without my LO? And just pretend that I dont have a baby, and that I don't have a un-healed 4th degree tear? And that I don't have poo seeping out my bits!? And pretend that my life is what it used to be? Urgh... this post has turned into a rant....I was only ment to come on here to ask if anyone lives near me. Oh well feels a bit better now. Although my LO is still crying.
     
  2. cat lover

    cat lover Mummy to 2 girls

    Joined:
    Nov 12, 2010
    Messages:
    2,590
    Likes Received:
    0
    I am so sorry hon. I live in London - would love to meet you if I was nearer!!! Is it worth going back to the Dr? Is OH home? Could LO be tired? My LO is always inconsolable when over tired. PM me anytime :hugs:
     
  3. Lawhra

    Lawhra NowProudMumOfTwo!!

    Joined:
    Mar 8, 2009
    Messages:
    2,754
    Likes Received:
    1
    I would go back to the doctor if I were you. You have been through a lot and understandably it's had an effect on you. With help you can feel yourself again.

    Where in Dorset are you? I'm in Poole and would meet for a coffee if you're near by :hugs: A good old moan and chat with another mum can help :)
     
  4. Poppy7

    Poppy7 Trained BF Peer Supporter

    Joined:
    Mar 11, 2009
    Messages:
    2,497
    Likes Received:
    0
    :hugs:

    I'm so sorry you feel like this. I'm in Plymouth so not that close but if you wanted to drive and meet halfway I would do that.

    Definitely go back to your doctor before you start feeling any worse.xx
     
  5. dpayne

    dpayne Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2011
    Messages:
    309
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hey, I'm in Bournemouth, happy to meet for a coffee / chat, always helps to have a good moan and chat to other mums. Hang in there :) x
     
  6. clare83_2000

    clare83_2000 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 10, 2011
    Messages:
    132
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hi I'm in Bournemouth too maybe we could all meet for coffee
     
  7. Cattia

    Cattia Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 11, 2009
    Messages:
    8,178
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'm in Hampshire, about half an hour from Bournemouth :wave:
     
  8. tiggerpony

    tiggerpony Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2011
    Messages:
    1,387
    Likes Received:
    0
    I am in Bournemouth too...................... thanks guys. I feel a bit better now when hubby got home and I had a bath. I don't know how we would go about it though? What part of Bournemouth do you live in, wouldnt it be scary if we already knew each other or went to the same school!?
     
  9. dpayne

    dpayne Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2011
    Messages:
    309
    Likes Received:
    0
    Glad you felt better, i love a good soak in the tub :) we could all meet for coffee next week? Can you do a group private message on here? We could arrange it through that x

    Eta... wallisdown
     
  10. Lawhra

    Lawhra NowProudMumOfTwo!!

    Joined:
    Mar 8, 2009
    Messages:
    2,754
    Likes Received:
    1
    Aw shame I don't have a car at the moment. I'd have loved to have a mummy meet.

    I'm glad you're feeling better tiggerpony :)
     
  11. clare83_2000

    clare83_2000 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 10, 2011
    Messages:
    132
    Likes Received:
    0
    I drive so can meet in Bournemouth or Poole
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice