Is this a trick?!

[Jaylynne]

DH and I were going back and forth on whether to find out the gender at the next ultrasound. I WANT to know and he thinks it should be a surprise at birth. Id like to make special decorations for LOs nursery and he said I could make for both then put up the right one when the baby is here like I want to spend all that time to have half go to waste.

Anyway... Yesterday we were arguing again and he told me "fine, go ahead and find out if you want it so much". Then he said he didn't want to discuss it anymore. Now im scared (not really scared more hesitant) to find out because I want him to be happy too. Sooooo is he serious or just gave up fighting fot the time being?? Ugh... What should I do?

 

[lu-is]

It might be him giving in to what you want to stop fighting about this topic. Maybe give it a day or so and bring up the topic again to decide what you are both happier with. Knowing or not knowing.