kateqpr
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Well after the worst night sleep ever this week, i'm determind to get Poppy into some sort of routine. We had been bringing her down stairs when she was crying, which then of course just woke her up more.
So, i've been taking her upstairs around 7.30ish, then giving her some 'wind down' time, having nappy free time, a little massage, then into pj's. Then a quiet feed in our bedroom in the dark, then into her moses basket...
sounds like a good plan, but when i put her into her cot, all sleepy, swaddled, she looks like she's going to settle. I leave her, then five mins later she's screaming. This goes on for about an hour (with me going in every 5 mins or so, and rubbing her tummy and singing to her). Eventually she goes to sleep, then she's great for the rest of the night.
Does anyone else have this problem? I'm hoping as i do this routine more she'll start to accept being put to bed more easily, rather than really fighting it. I just find the crying hard, but am guessing this is normal for some babies who don't quite understand what bed time means yet? I don;t feel comfortable letting her CIO as she's so young, so just trying not to pick her up (if i know she;s not dirty, hungry etc), just singing to her and eventually this routine seems to work.
I'm thinking of taking her to see a cranial osteopath to see if that might help, as she was ventouse and had a stressful delivery.
Do you think she'll get better? Determind to keep this bedtime routine up now we've started, in the hope she'll start to know night and day.
Or any other settling tips?
So, i've been taking her upstairs around 7.30ish, then giving her some 'wind down' time, having nappy free time, a little massage, then into pj's. Then a quiet feed in our bedroom in the dark, then into her moses basket...
sounds like a good plan, but when i put her into her cot, all sleepy, swaddled, she looks like she's going to settle. I leave her, then five mins later she's screaming. This goes on for about an hour (with me going in every 5 mins or so, and rubbing her tummy and singing to her). Eventually she goes to sleep, then she's great for the rest of the night.
Does anyone else have this problem? I'm hoping as i do this routine more she'll start to accept being put to bed more easily, rather than really fighting it. I just find the crying hard, but am guessing this is normal for some babies who don't quite understand what bed time means yet? I don;t feel comfortable letting her CIO as she's so young, so just trying not to pick her up (if i know she;s not dirty, hungry etc), just singing to her and eventually this routine seems to work.
I'm thinking of taking her to see a cranial osteopath to see if that might help, as she was ventouse and had a stressful delivery.
Do you think she'll get better? Determind to keep this bedtime routine up now we've started, in the hope she'll start to know night and day.
Or any other settling tips?