A few days ago I accidentally told a colleague at work that I am pregnant. Rather surprisingly her first question/comment wasn't congratulations or when are you due? Instead it was 'Was it Planned.' This took me a little by surprise and I just answered 'Yes, Very!'. At the time I just thought that it's a valid question, but the more I think about it, the more I think how impolite and just plain rude it is to ask this. Do you agree? Am I being over sensitive? Has anyone asked this of you? Thanks girls...this has been bugging me!