Is using Preseed sneaky?

[MegGem]

OH and I started TTC last month for one cycle and along with life stress and also him getting freaked out with timing of BDing, he decided he wants to not try so hard and just do things naturally. Okay I am fine with this (it's a lot less stressful too by the way!)

The thing is, I ordered some Preseed before we decided to do thing naturally. Is it bad of me to use Preseed now? I feel like I am tricking him. I know if he found out I was using it he might be a little turned off from conceiving.

What would you do?

 

[Chris77]

I don't think pre-seed is sneaky. You're still doing it naturally, your just adding a little oomph. You can always say that you're a little dry and the lube makes it more enjoyable for you.

Good luck!

 

[MayMay]

using lube isn't natural BUT I'm sure your man wouldn't want you to be uncomfortable, since any other lube would unnaturally interfere with his swimmers ability to do there natural thing.... preseed is a logical choice!