OH and I started TTC last month for one cycle and along with life stress and also him getting freaked out with timing of BDing, he decided he wants to not try so hard and just do things naturally. Okay I am fine with this (it's a lot less stressful too by the way!) The thing is, I ordered some Preseed before we decided to do thing naturally. Is it bad of me to use Preseed now? I feel like I am tricking him. I know if he found out I was using it he might be a little turned off from conceiving. What would you do?