It has been a long time!!!

[Thomas'mum]

Hello !!!!

I have not been on the forum for ages, several months I think!!!!
I had a quick look at the threads and Dionne I cannot beleive how much Harvey has grown up!!!! Mind you Thomas is a big boy now, my baby has gone!!!! There is a smiley that summer up my boy I am in the midlle of course.

So how do you enjoy all your toddlers? Thomas still does not talk at 20 months of age, not a single word ( although very chatty in baby language and can count to 10 in baby language) But he has started tantrums which sometimes drive me

I'll be glad to hear from you all, see how you get on. right I am off, am going to read some more threads, have some catch up to do lol

Speak soon

 

[beanie]

Hi, its great to hear from you!!!!! How are you doing? Seren is also being a devil and angel, thrives in the middle of chaos. I am expecting baby number 2, was a massive surprise!!! Hope you post again soon xx

 

[Thomas'mum]

Hey Beanie, congratulations!!!! Oh no, I am not ready for baby number 2, think I will never be ready for one!!!!
I think I am not the mothering type I am afraid. I love Thomas to bits but I wish I could have a bit of freedom. I have never been to the cinema or did anything on my own since he was born, the only time I am without him is at work, so I never get any personal space. So baby number 2 is out of the question now lol

Am on holiday until 3rd of september, that is why i am trying to catch up a bit!!!! Any news of Emilia? I think a lot of you two!!!!

 

[beanie]

hehe I am not ready for baby 2. It was just getting to the settling stage, Seren getting more independant, and here I go again.

Emilia has been very busy with her new business, she sells slings and other fab baby things. I hear from her occasionally and she sounds like she is doing great

 

[Wobbles]

You should plan some 'my space' even if its an hour at a gym ... Tantrums don't sound good

Lovely to see you again if you remember me lol

x x

 

[stephlw25]

Hiya, hope you and Thomas are doing well! i knw what you mean about the devil/angel thing !!! lol
Am also expecting number 2 and starting to panic how i will cope !!! lmao!

Steph xx

 

[Dionne]

Hello hun - not seen you about for a looong time

Harvey???? whos harvey
lol Harley is growing up sooo fast though where are the recent pics of thomas

 

[Thomas'mum]

Dionne I apologise!!!! Harley I meant

Of course I remember you Wobbles!!!!

You are brave to have the second one, I sincerely think I could not manage emotionally!!!!

I do not want to sound bad but I do not think I could have 2. I have moments where I love Thomas so much I keep telling him i love him every 2 minutes and other days when I really do not want to look after him, I do it because I have to but will not engage with him as much as other days. He can get me so stressed in less than 40 seconds sometimes. And I know his bad behaviour ( although he is not badly behaved really) is my fault because I do not give him the attention and activities he wants.

And here is my boy



But maybe it is because I have not got the right setting. You all know I do almost everything on my own even though I am not a single mum. I have financial problems too. So no in those conditions, definitely no!!!

And I am so terrible at keeping the house tidy. I have always be a very messy person and I can't shift that!!! My house is a bomb site every day, Thomas does not help by putting everything everywhere lol

And one thing that I always do now that I never used to do is MOAN!!! I think I could win a moaner competiton lol