It's just not fair..

[kjean]

Its so selfish & rude of me but my boyfriends bestfriend and his girlfriend of almost 2 months and JUST turned 18 and are pregnant and we've been trying since December and yet to get pregnant. What's wrong with me, why can't I be a mom and have that.. I'm so unbelievably jealous I have a knot in my throat to just cry and I keep telling myself how selfish I am because if that day comes I'd want people to be happy for me.. :/

 

[lauren1991]

Its so selfish & rude of me but my boyfriends bestfriend and his girlfriend of almost 2 months and JUST turned 18 and are pregnant and we've been trying since December and yet to get pregnant. What's wrong with me, why can't I be a mom and have that.. I'm so unbelievably jealous I have a knot in my throat to just cry and I keep telling myself how selfish I am because if that day comes I'd want people to be happy for me.. :/

I feel the exact same,

A heavily pregnant woman camer walking into Asda yesterday and i just got so envious!

Ur not alone!!! im the exact same!!

Praying ur sticky bean comes soon!

L xx

 

[bluidgrl87]

You are not selfish every woman in our position feels the same way its not that your not happy for her its just that you want it so bad it hurts....i started ttc 3 or 4 months before my bff did and now her second baby is almost 3 months old and im still ttc! its hard and it sucks sometimes but it will happen when its meant too!

hope you get that sticky bean!

 

[kjean]

Thanks girls-
That means a lot to me. It really helps to have people to talk to who understand. Good luck to you girls as well! Praying everyone gets that positive soon

 

[bluidgrl87]

There ya go girl keep your head up!

 

[lauren1991]

Thanks girls-
That means a lot to me. It really helps to have people to talk to who understand. Good luck to you girls as well! Praying everyone gets that positive soon

Exactly! i try not to get jealous!

my cousin falls pregnant at the drop of a hat!

she gives me tips though lol!

my partners brother has been trying with his fiancee for 4 years and they still havent had anything and im hoping im pregnant before her....... which is nasty lol.

Hoping u get ur BFP soon chick!

L xx

 

[kel3639]

I feel the same way too! I get SO jealous of women with their bellies.. I almost want to go up and rub them and ask how far along they are tho! I'm super obsessed!!

 

[lauren1991]

I feel the same way too! I get SO jealous of women with their bellies.. I almost want to go up and rub them and ask how far along they are tho! I'm super obsessed!! :blushed:

Weve all just got to wait on our bfp,

Ive not got mine this month (have a wee niggly feeling i dont) but hopefully next month

L xx

 

[Mellymommy]

I Know how you feel!!! Have exactly the same problem

 

[bluidgrl87]

Blah i want my bfp now! I just ov and my husband got
called to go on a mission for 3 days and we missed our time!

 

[lauren1991]

Blah i want my bfp now! I just ov and my husband got
called to go on a mission for 3 days and we missed our time!

Jeezo!

Why is the world just so cruel!


L xx

 

[kel3639]

Blah i want my bfp now! I just ov and my husband got
called to go on a mission for 3 days and we missed our time!

I would be like! Excuse me sir who needs my DH, I need him to so we can have a so I can keep my sanity !!! Thank you!

 

[Praying4O]

I FEEL THE SAME WAY!!! uhhh it sucks.

 

[kjean]

I know! I can't stand it... I'm hoping we have luck this month & luck to all you ladies. It makes it so much easier to know I'm not alone. I feel like such a defect sometimes.

 

[Mrsh2007]

I'm trying not to be crabby but it's hard sometimes. Especially when I see everyone left and right getting pregnant. I feel like as soon as we decided we were going to try for baby #1 everyone is getting that BFP but me.

 

[bluidgrl87]

thanks ladies...kel lol to funny!

 

[kel3639]

bluidgrl-I thought it would be a bit funny! We all probably need to laugh a bit more!! I feel so bitchy sometimes cuz I'm baby crazy. My poor husband always gets the worst of it

 

[kjean]

I Def get bitchy I need to learn to relax. It's like seeing a certain type of car when you want it so bad you notice it more. Pregnant ladies jaw been around us for ages but because we want it sooooo ba were noticing it like crazy. Sucks yes but I can't wait till I'm the one they're noticing

 

[Yammas]

Ive been soo jealous at times but then i feel bad after I just soo want that to be me!!!

to all

 

[kel3639]

Totally!! LOL! I started doing hot yoga and it helps me relax A LOT! I %100 recommend it! It just takes some getting used to!