it's not fair...

[lilmissdanni]

Rylan is 15 months old. We planned on 2 close together... All of my bump buddies are either pregnant again or have even had another! It's sooooo not fair. Af has just come and gone....again. I hate it more than anything. Why can't it be us?

Giving it till December then going to sell the stuff we have kept hold of I think x

 

[Laurana]

Rylan is 15 months old. We planned on 2 close together... All of my bump buddies are either pregnant again or have even had another! It's sooooo not fair. Af has just come and gone....again. I hate it more than anything. Why can't it be us?

Giving it till December then going to sell the stuff we have kept hold of I think x

It's certainly not fair... My kids are spaced WAY further apart than I ever planned. My youngest is 6 1/2 and we're still trying. And I have 8 years between my first and second kids. I can also tell you, it is kinda nice having a big gap- you get to focus on the little ones better. Don't sell your stuff- don't give up.

 

[nolansmom]

I have a 6 1/2 yr old and I think it'll be great having another now.. He is so aware of all baby related stuff - He is a good helper and really will make the best big brother ever in terms of being a teacher and protector.. He said to me the other day (prior to BFP that he wont know about for months) -- "babies don't really know that much mom and when you have a baby in your belly I will teach him.. Well not him maybe you could have a girl baby".. They are great as older siblings.. And MUCH less work for US..

 

[emalou90]

Don't sell your stuff Hun. Hang in there it will happen.
Key to it is relaxation xxxxx