It's too hard!

[PrettyFlowers]

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[preg_pilot]

I know how you feel.
I´m ready for #2, OH is not. I respect him enough to wait with him, but it´s really hard.
My hormones are my boss.

 

[tverb84]

I feel the same way too sometimes and I have no clue when I'll have children.

 

[SoBroody91]

Completely agree! my broodyness tends to come in waves (if that makes sense!) and right now it's ALL I can think about too!!

 

[PrettyFlowers]

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[odd_socks]

I know the feeling WTT is sending me loopy, a date for TTC/NTNP would at least be something

 

[LouOscar01]

I am actually going crazy. I can't think of anything else ever. I want it so incredibly badly and my ttc date feel so impossibly far away. I can't rationalise and think actually it's not and I should enjoy my time with OH and not be wishing it away....can't bloody help it. I NEED TO BE PREGNANT. I try and alternate my baby chat between my Mum and OH. Luckily I have a best friend who is baby crazy too so we have each other!!! Argghh

 

[PrettyFlowers]

I am actually going crazy. I can't think of anything else ever. I want it so incredibly badly and my ttc date feel so impossibly far away. I can't rationalise and think actually it's not and I should enjoy my time with OH and not be wishing it away....can't bloody help it. I NEED TO BE PREGNANT. I try and alternate my baby chat between my Mum and OH. Luckily I have a best friend who is baby crazy too so we have each other!!! Argghh

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[LouOscar01]

Rather than think about something else I have taken up knitting. At least I can do something productive now when I think about baby all the time!

 

[JT2013]

I completely know where you're coming from, thinking about it non stop and it feels like pregnant women/babies are everywhere I look whenever I'm not thinking about it!

My DH thinks I've got a bit mad! I think it must be difficult for guys to understand though- I'm a rational, intelligent woman (I think!) but my hormones are taking over....or as a friend of mine once put it, 'My ovaries are clanging!'

 

[LouOscar01]

My OH doesn't really get it either! He thinks it's just something I want....it's definitely become something I need!

 

[su_grad2007]

I think it really is hard for men to understand what it feels like. Not only do we really want children, but there is actually a physiologically hormonally driven need to have one. My husband has told me that he does want kids, but he doesn't have that hard wired drive to have one that I have. Sometimes it really is down right physically and emotionally painful to have to wait. At least that is how it feels to me. Not all the time, but sometimes.

 

[PrettyFlowers]

I think it really is hard for men to understand what it feels like. Not only do we really want children, but there is actually a physiologically hormonally driven need to have one. My husband has told me that he does want kids, but he doesn't have that hard wired drive to have one that I have. Sometimes it really is down right physically and emotionally painful to have to wait. At least that is how it feels to me. Not all the time, but sometimes.

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[MummyJade]

Since my OH decided he wanted a baby sooner rather then later I have been baby mode! Ive picked out nursery range, prams, Car seats the lot... before when we 1st spoke he wanted to wait a few years.. which I agreed too, then just outta the blue he said he was ready... I think he could be regretting it the amount i talk about it, and how much I plan on denting his bank balance!
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