Not sure if you are talking to me or not Messica - but I agree it can impact fertility; I just said that I don't think morphology alone is going to make an RE clinic go straight to IVF without trying other options first (but of course that depends on what the patient wants to do). But good points about clarifying the different types of morphology, which is important.
I think the point I was saying was that it's an incredibly subjective field by itself and three different embryologists could look at a semen result and give you 3 different morphology reports, since the look of the semen is very subjective depending on who examines it. Sure they have guidelines, but it can vary and definitely doesn't mean IVF is the only option. That's been my experience in U.S. clinics, but it sounds like it's done very different in Canada.
And I was only giving an example in my case of what a 3 percent general morphology report resulted in in terms of fertilization, since I thought it would be helpful to know as an example that in my case 9 out of 11 eggs were still fertilized "naturally" even without doing ICSI and a morphology of 3 percent. But yes, I know that varies greatly from person to person for any number of reasons. I was in no way implying anything in anyone else's case at all, sorry if it sounded that way.
I can see now in my last comment I should have phrased it as saying "low morphology might not impact your ability for it to fertilize" since that's what I meant. I can go back and change it if that helps.
And my goodness, if you are going to pay for IVF because it does of course have the best success rate and there's any question at all by all means pay the little bit more for ICSI to be sure! We had our embryologist give us a report on my husband's semen the day of procedure to do a double check to make sure we didn't need to do a last minute change to ICSI and I'm glad we did. But had there been more of a suggestion the issue laid with my husband only instead of me, I would have paid the extra for it in a heartbeat.
My only point of showing the numbers was to show that it is still possible to conceive other ways with low morphology, so don't think you have to jump straight to IVF but again it's such a personal decision.
I think you brought up some excellent points on what to ask the RE's office for specifically on what's causing the defects for each person and what is the best course of action.