Jealousy

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  1. skippy

    skippy Got my furbabies :)

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    Its probably just me but I have MAJOR trust issues with my OH, my ex cheated on me 6 times over 2 years and I left him as soon as I found out. My OH is seriously an ANGEL. He's the complete opposite of my ex, he does everything for me, he never even LOOKS at other woman - even the ones you see walking round town in next to nothing, where he works he's surrounded by men who just look at porn all day long and (in his words) all he says is he's "got so much better" (I nearly cried with happiness when he told me:haha:) and does pretty much all the work perfectly (he works with douchebags:growlmad:) but despite him being perfect in every way...I get SO jealous. When he's on the PC all I do is question him if he's talking to anyone (he says no everytime and stops what he's doing and comes and cuddles me for ages after) when he goes out I constantly question him "if he saw anyone" (which pretty much means the whore who kissed him before he got with me:growlmad:) and one day he wrote me a letter telling me how he was sorry for anything he'd done that had hurt me which is practically NOTHING -, how much he loved me, etc, it was the sweetest letter I've ever read:cloud9:, and just... I feel so bad, he really is perfect and I know he would never do anything but...it doesn't stop me worrying and questioning him about everything he does. I don't know why I do it:shrug:
    Is it just me thats like this?:wacko:
     
  2. Kitten

    Kitten Mummy to Theakston & Nyah

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    I was like this when me and OH first got together. He had a few female friends and I felt he was rather naive about their intentions. He was also a bit of a manwhore when he was younger whereas I'd never had a one night stand so I worried he might do something stupid when drunk and was sooo paranoid at first but now I only have little blips and I don't voice them. It sounds like your OH is very understanding about your 'issues' though and it's good that deep down you know you've nothing to worry about :)
     
  3. dizzyisacow

    dizzyisacow wife,mother & myself

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    i think it will get better with time. when he continues beeing like he is now you will finally feel safe and not worry about these things. xx
     

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