June, month of new beginnings! Thread for laughter, support and POAS! 19 BFP!

[hunni12]

Well anything is possible even tho that is a tad bit early for a 31 day cycle

Confuzion how r u holding up

 

[Cheekygringo]

Well that part is over, waiting for O to be able to start the tww...

I really do hope this is a good month, getting closer to a year since we started TTC, and my short cycles means I have had a lot chances but nothing is happening.. I already know that as a shift worked, my chances are lower and I drink probably way too much coffee to be good, but I'm working towards getting out of this job in the future, would be nice to get a bfp sooner though.

 

[dollyminxture]

Hi everyone, I've been TTC number 2 for months and have eventually decided to come back on here for support and buddy's! I'm due to test on 15th June

 

[dollyminxture]

Well that part is over, waiting for O to be able to start the tww...

I really do hope this is a good month, getting closer to a year since we started TTC, and my short cycles means I have had a lot chances but nothing is happening.. I already know that as a shift worked, my chances are lower and I drink probably way too much coffee to be good, but I'm working towards getting out of this job in the future, would be nice to get a bfp sooner though.

cheekygringo don't put so much pressure on yourself, I know it's frustrating but it will happen when your ready. Keep calm and enjoy the trying. big hugs.

 

[jmandrews]

Sorry so behind. Trying to catch up.

Confusion your chart looks great!

 

[confuzion]

Hunni - I'm doing ok. One more week and I'll be out of this tww. I may test in 3 days time.

Cheeky - FX for you this cycle!

Dollyminxture - welcome and good luck!

 

[twinkie2]

Welcome to June everyone!!! Loads of good luck to us all!

Cutie-Sorry to see you here thinking of you!!

Lynny-don't temp, not if O will be confirmed by doc

ILT- dpo buddies!!!!

 

[confuzion]

Cross-post JM lol. Thanks. I think it could be better. Haha.

 

[hunni12]

Welcome dolly!

So i just bought a test and will be taking it in the morning. OH keeps trying to get me to takeit now but he doesnt understand why fmu is best lol

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Hunni, you are killing me with the suspense! LOL. Can't wait to see your test tomorrow! FX and lots of

Confuzion, loving your temp!! I have a feeling we are going to see BFP from you soon!

Twinkie, yayyy cycle buddy. My OPK is still positive though. So hopefully I'll O soon!

To all of the new ladies. Welcome!

Cheeky, have you visited your OB yet and see if everything is alright? Over here the OB usually wait until 1 year of TTC before check up if you are under 35 and 6 months if you are over 35. There is nothing wrong having things checked out . It'll give you a peace of mind and renewed confidence.

 

[KrissyB]

Well, it's been a roller coaster-y few days.
I thought the witch found me last Thursday after DTD.... but that spotting was sporadic all the way through Sunday, so I was really not sure what to think.
But today she definitely got me.

Count me in for June! CD 2.
I'm excited! This will be cycle #3 TTC and third time's a charm! I'm temping for the first time so hopefully I'll have a better idea what my body is up to than last time, I really like the potential due date for this month, and I'm in love with the June=Juno (goddess of fertility) bit of trivia from Deal.

Best of luck to all of us for this cycle!! FX and lots of for all!

 

[confuzion]

ILT - you can still O with a positive OPK, which is why they say to stop testing after the first positive.

hunni - being as late as you are I don't think it would matter whether FMU or not it should be dark.

KrissyB - sorry the witch found you . FX for June! I agree I love Deal's trivia

 

[kwynia]

I know some of you were worried (jk) I wasnt in a BD mood, I'm glad to let you know the hornies came back full force

 

[confuzion]

Haha good to hear kwynia

 

[Cheekygringo]

I've had basic tests for hormones done, I can't afford to see a specialist, need private cover for that, so it will have to be naturally or not at all. Definitely can't afford ivf payind cash, though we could prollt afford to go over seas and do it, as some ladies I know have actually done and had a very high success rate.

Will wait and see what happens...

 

[frenchie35]

@cheeky: If you have short cycles, do you know how long your luteal phase is? If it's 10 days or shorter, you may need to take care of that. There are natural ways to try to make it longer. Mine were only 9-10 days, so my DR put me on progesterone for the first 10 days of my luteal phase to give any eggs time to stick. Now they're 13-14 days.

AFM - CD 12 - I'm now sure that I ovulated yesterday since I had my temp jump this morning. Also, my cervix went from soft yesterday to firm today (good suggestion, Melly).

 

[Cheekygringo]

Mine are around 11 days, I started bit B complex, and it pushed my O forward a few days and that lengthened my luteal phase a day or two. My 21 day progesterone levels are apparently ok according to the Dr I went to. But I don't know what the numbers were, and whether they were on the low side or not.

 

[No5]

Here's to June.. X.

 

[Deal9027]

Kwynia - Glad to hear you got the hornies back!!

Hunni - Did you yet?!?!?!! You are making me crazy with your stubborn strength to not poas!!!!! You marvel me woman!!!

Twinkie - you def Oed!!!! And your chart looks great!!!! Fx Fx Fx

Speaking of charts - Confuzion - your's looks amazing!!!

Cheeky - Have you looked in to acupuncture? It's a natural - farily low cost - option to correct any imbalances or fertility isues you may be experiencing. This is my next plan of action if I'm not successful within the next 2 cycles.

KrissyB - You have Juno & 3x a charm going for you this cycle!! Woohoo!!!!!!

To all the other lovely ladies and hope all is well!!!!

AFM, With some great refrain, I am moving forward with this cycle and NOT adding anything new to "increase" my odds. I want to give the Vitex time to balance my cycle without adding something else that may jumble it up! The only thing I'm adding is the use of OPK to target my fetile window since temping just lets me know once it already happened. I'm going to start using them maybe CD12 maybe incase I miraculously O even earlier than last cycle at CD18. That would be SO awesome if I do but I'm totally prepared for late O.

 

[No5]

I'm not gonna bother with temping or opks this time I'm gonna go with the flow and see what happens .. BD as and when.. I can't really relie on HPT as with my youngest I didn't know I was preg ..until I was three months (I though I must be five months - went to doc and had scan following week I was 13wks..) but always had a bfp weather it was faint or dark with all my boys plus I had all the signs one being smells and nausea..but never got that with my girl until after I found out.. Typical lol.. That was eight years ago.. (Thought we was done but you can never say never lol.. It's like starting all over again..). My mum didn't know she was pregnant with both my older brother's until she went into full labour and her waters went..

(Back to me lol) my AF was meant to start Sunday 25th but came five days early (13dpo) only lasted two days mid/light flow on/off.. Plus lots of EW mucus (sorry TMI..like a mucus AF)
Usually my cervix is always very low before and during AF but it was medium/high this time round..plus I'm always heavy for two days then medium flow for one then on/off spotting (but that didn't happen this time or last month.).

(I had my copper coil out in march..).