Just for fun - How long into your relationship did you hit "the milestones"

[loeylo]

Just out of curiosity really, and for a bit of fun!

Your age: 25 in two months!
Partners age: 25 next month
Age met: 21
How did you meet: One of my friends moved in with one of his friends, they had a housewarming party.
First date: Fireworks night, a week after we met. We were supposed to be going for dinner, but went to the pub instead! Ended up going clubbing with a bunch of my friends who he had never met. Unconventional! Haha!
Made it official: The day before Valentines day, totally unromantically, driving home from ASDA!
Moved in together: Two and a half years
Engagement: Not quite there yet ...
Wedding: No idea!
TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: We will be at least four years into our relationship.

 

[FAR]

Hi! This looks like fun

Your age: 25

Partners age: 26

Age met: 20/21

How did you meet: We were at the same [very small] university campus. We were introduced by hanging out studying with a mutual friend.

First date: About 6 months after we met. It doesn't really count as a 'date' but he gave me a lift home from the library, I invited him inside, and he stayed for hours and hours just talking about everything, watching 'Scrubs' and eating pizza.

Made it official: The very next day!

Moved in together: 7 months later!

Engagement: We got engaged last spring, so we'd been together for 4 years.

Wedding: Will probably happen during summer 2015...but we haven't set the date yet.

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: We have no idea when this will be able to be...hopefully not too far away.

 

[madseasons]

FUN!

Your age: 35

Partners age: 33

Age met: Me 22 – DH 20

How did you meet: In his barracks room (Navy – in Japan) through a mutual friend.

First date: Never had one, went from being best friends to lovers.

Made it official: We had a drunken kiss one night in August of 2001, and that was “all she wrote”.

Moved in together: December 31st 2004 when he moved from PA to Los Angeles to be with me after a two year break (because of distance).

Engagement: I asked him to marry me in April 2005.

Wedding: October 16, 2006 in Las Vegas!

TTC/ Plan to ttc #2: In April! DS just turned 4.

 

[curiousowl]

Love these things

Your age: 29

Partners age: 28

Age met: I was 23

How did you meet: I moved in with a friend and she invited him over to hang out. He was a friend of a friend of a friend of her boyfriend and he lived nearby.

First date: Dinner and a movie. We'd hung out a few times as friends just the 2 of us before that though. When he came to get me for our first date my roommate and her boyfriend were there like parents seeing us off, it was very funny!

Made it official: Not really sure. He called me his girlfriend after a couple weeks. It took me a month or so to call him my boyfriend.

Moved in together: After a year and a couple months.

Engagement: 11/3/2011 (3 1/2 years in)

Wedding: 5/26/2013 (After just over 5 years together)

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: Next cycle!

 

[RainbowDrop_x]

Your age: 23

Partners age: 32

Age met: Me 17 - 26 (2008)

How did you meet: We worked together

First date: Dinner and a movie, but that didn't happen until I was 18

Made it official: Just after my 18th birthday

Moved in together: May 2010 the week after our DD was born, it was supposed to be before she was born but there were a few delays

Engagement: January 2010

Wedding: 3rd November 2013

TTC/ Plan to ttc #2: When I'm ready, few things I need to come to terms with personally.

 

[Feb4th2011]

Your age: 30

Partners age: 32

Age met: I was 25

How did you meet: We met on an online dating site.

First date: I picked him up (he lived 1.5hours away) we came back to the city i was living in and went for sushi, walked my dog by the river, and then went back to my place and watched a movie!

Made it official: 2 weeks after that.

Moved in together: 3 months after meeting.

Engagement: Feb, 2010. 15 months into our relationship.

Wedding: Feb, 2011. In Cuba!

We have one DS 15 Months and are WTT until July 2014 to start trying for #2

 

[comotion89]

Your age: 24

Partners age: 27

Age met: me 21 him 23

How did you meet: Online
First date: 1 week after talking, we spoke on the phone the day we met from 9 am till 5pm then he drove 50 miles to see me we had our first date listening to tunes and chatting in my car where I fell asleep (was 3am by then)hahah woke up still safe n him just holding me

Made it official: 1 month after

Moved in together: 17 months 4 days

Engagement: 21 months 3 days

Wedding: This may

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: 2015 Dec

 

[spicyorange]

Your age: 27
Partners age: 35
Age met: 14 & 22.
Age got together: 18 & 26 (2005)
First date: went to stay with him for a weekend which planned before got together, he me to dinner.

Made it official: The day before over the phone after hours of text flirt
Engaged: New year's day 2009. 3 1/2 years together
Moved in together: July 2009
Wedding: 2010. 5 years together.
Plan to ttc #1: Dec 2014/Jan 15

 

[mandaa1220]

Your age: 24

Partners age: 25

Age met: 20

How did you meet: He was a friend of my ex OH.

First date: 21 - He picked me up drunk from my moms house, brought me to his and we watched Dear John and made out

Moved in together: 1 1/2 years together

Engagement: 1 1/2 years together

Wedding: It will be in April and we'll have been together 3 years.

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: It will be next month and we'll have been together about 3 years.

 

[MamaByrd]

What a cute idea!

Your age: 23

Partners age: 27

Age met: 18 and 22 respectively.

How did you meet: We met on a bus, driving from Texas to Mississippi.

First date: Umm.. we hung out just as friends for a long time, I think our first official "date" was to The Hard Rock Cafe & a movie.

Made it official: This past June. During a conversation in which he told me he's always loved me & no one can compare to his best friend.

Moved in together: We will be in April!

Engagement: Not yet, but I think it'll be quick

Wedding: When we move to New York in mid-2015.

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: Shortly after the wedding.. Early 2016.

 

[RandaPanda]

Aw, love this idea!

Your age: 32

Partner's age: almost 33 (in March)

Age met: 12

How did you meet: we went to middle school together and knew each other, but had different groups of friends

Age got together: 17 (towards the end of 1998)

First date: we didn't really have one...just lots of group things like parties and movies...where we would secretly hold hands or sneak kisses

Made it official: March 6, 1999

Moved in together: 2001. We were 20, going to university, and lived in a house with a bunch of friends. Has been just the 2 of us for quite some time now though!

Engaged: August 30, 2010 - in a canoe on the lake at our cottage

Wedding: August 12, 2011 (after 12.5 years together!!)

TTC/plan to TTC #1: next month!

 

[Springermommy]

Your age: 28
Partners age: 28... He's 2 months younger
Age met: me 19, him 18
How did you meet: thru mutual friends at a basketball game
First date: Though we met in 2004, we weren't romantic until 2011 cant remember the actual first date, but I drove 4 hrs to visit him in his hometown july 2011 and that's when our relationship informally began
Made it official: October 29, 2011
Moved in together: March 10, 2012
Engagement: August 22, 2012
Wedding: October 13, 2012 We moved fast, but not really when you look at the big picture. Friends for 7 years before our relationship started.
TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: May 2015

 

[Flourish]

Your age: 25

Partners age: 34

Age met: me 18 OH 27

How did you meet: we met the first day on the same course at Uni

First date: some time in 2009 after being friends for a coue of years, not 100% sure as it just kinda happened.

Made it official: 2009

Moved in together: August 2012

Engagement: April 2013

Wedding: April 2014

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: on our honeymoon which we are hoping will be sometime between June-October this year.

 

[GreyGirl]

Your age: 29
Partners age: 29
Age met: 21
How did you meet: At university.
First date: To a nature centre which was shut when we got there then to pizza hut which was shut...so we ended up going to mine and ordering in.
Made it official: That day!
Moved in together: The day we got married.
Engagement: 2 years to the day after we had our first date
Wedding: 4 months after getting engaged.
TTC/ Plan to ttc #2: This Summer to aim for a 2 year age gap.

 

[Wnt2beAMom]

Your age: 23

Partners age: 25

Age met: Just turned 15 and he had turned 17 in April respectively. (June 2005)

How did you meet: We worked together and would talk a lot on break and on Facebook when it came out.

First date: March 2008, I think we met for coffee when he was in town visiting. I was 17 and him 19, almost 20. Then a month after that we went to a movie.

Made it official: June 2008 - I invited him to my 18th birthday party (he was now 20) and we made out and stuff haha

Moved in together: June 2010 (Me 20, him 22)

Engagement: January 2012 (Me 21, him 23)

Wedding: September 2013 (Me 23, him 25)

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: This April (Me 23, him turning 26)

 

[LynAnne]

Your age: 24

Partners age: 24

Age met: 15

How did you meet: At a mutual friend's 16th birthday party.

First date: 17th August 2005. It wasn't a date but he came over to mine about 6 months (and a lot of friendship dramas) after we met just to hang out when I was 16, he was still 15.

Made it official: The very same day. After he left I sent him a text to ask where we stood with each other and we made it official right then.

Moved in together: 1st September 2011. Six years (aged 22)

Engagement: 1st July 2011. Six weeks before our six year anniversary. (Aged 21)

Wedding: Fingers crossed for Summer 2015, just before our nine year anniversary.

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: Hopefully sometime in 2015

 

[SoccerLove]

Your age: 24

Partners age: 30

Age met: 18 (2008)

How did you meet: Mutual friends

First date: Shortly after we met

Made it official: Shortly after first date

Moved in together: After 3 years (2011)

Engagement: After 4 years (2012)

Wedding: After 5 years (2013)

TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: Hopefully this year, aiming for March/April. I need to get over my fears of pregnancy and becoming a mother first. And stop the pill.

 

[sequeena]

Your age: 24 (25 in April)
Partners age: 29 (30 in August)
Age met: 18, we started our relationship when I was 19
How did you meet: Through work, though I did not like him for a while!
First date: We never really did dates
Made it official: November 5th 2008
Moved in together: December 2008
Engagement: January/February 2009
Wedding: We are not massive on weddings... we'll get there eventually
TTC/ Plan to ttc #2: Thomas was born in 2011 and the unofficial date for #2 is sometime in 2015. We need to know if our son has a genetic condition before we make any decisions.

 

[michelle535]

Your age: 32 (33 next month)
Partners age: 35
Age met: Me - 26 OH - 28
How did you meet: I worked with one of OH's closest friends who introduced us during a night out.
First date: We met for lunch at a pub opposite my old workplace only to bump into most of my friends who chose to sit at the neighbouring table just to annoy me!
Made it official: A week later
Moved in together: A year later in 2008
Engagement: Christmas 2009
Wedding: 2012 (after 5 years together)
TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: January 2015

 

[su_grad2007]

Your age: 32
Partners age: 33
Age met: 14
How did you meet: We went to high school together
First date: We were supposed to go to a concert with a group of mutual friends from high school. But it turns out that everyone else ended up canceling and it ended up being just the two of us
Made it official: 2nd date 2 weeks later
Moved in together: a year later
Engagement: Discussed it 1 month after we started dating. It was official with both our families and friends knowing about 3 months after we started dating
Wedding: New Years Eve 2010
TTC/ Plan to ttc #1: We will start ttc in October of this year. We will have been together 5 years and married 3 years.