just found out im about 3 weeks pregnant aaaah
so excited but my boyfriend wants me to get rid of it but im not going to. im so excited but not sure how to announce it to anyone else including my parents
any help?? also when did people begin to show i cant wait to have a bump so everyone knows aaaah
xx
Hey
Welcome to Baby & Bump forum
I'm Stacey & I'm 20 years old & expecting my first baby which is a girl in 11 weeks time
Congratulations on the Pregnancy & I wish you a healthy 9 Months
It's up to you if you want to keep the baby which I can see clearly you do because you're excited. Obviously your boyfriend hasn't got his head around the situation because it's a big shock to him. It's early days & I think he needs time to get his head around it.
I was in the same boat as you darling. I found out I was pregnant & my boyfriend wasn't interested. I booked a doctors appointment straight away & went there on my own to confirm I was pregnant & I wanted a dating scan & that I obviously wanted to keep her.
A week later I took my mum out for a coffee.. So I was away from my sister & dad. So I told her.. She told me that everything was going to be alright & she would be there to support me. She then told my dad that night & he knew something was wrong with me because I've been acting strange and he was happy he was going to be a granddad.
I told my boyfriend I told my parents & he dumped me.
So my parents said that it's not fair that he wouldn't tell his parents that they was going to be grandparents. So my mum phoned them up and told them the news. Which I was glad about because my boyfriend didn't know what to do to and locked himself away and stopped eating because he was worried what his parents might do. So his mum had a long chat with him & the next day he was fine with me & asked to meet up and talk about it.
He said sorry for being a idiot and that he handled the situation wrong.
This all happened when I was 6 weeks pregnant & we've been fine ever since & his so excited on becoming a father.
I hope this helps. I know everyone is different but maybe your boyfriend needs to get his head around it and I think you should tell your parents & book in to the doctors to get a dating scan
Also I started to show around 26 weeks. It just looked like I ate abit too much. hehe! xx