just found out im pregnant aaah :)

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just found out im about 3 weeks pregnant aaaah :) so excited but my boyfriend wants me to get rid of it but im not going to. im so excited but not sure how to announce it to anyone else including my parents :( any help?? also when did people begin to show i cant wait to have a bump so everyone knows aaaah :) xx
 
aww congrats :) pay no attention to your boyfriend is not up to him, just be honest with your parents is best way be they'll be shocked but will come round eventually
i had a tiny bump at 13 weeks is more noticable now at almost 17 :) good luck
 
i began to show at like 17 weeks, and congratulations.. im not sure how i can tell you to tell your parents, your just gonna have to tell them very calmly or drop hints.. sorry im not good with that bit. :flower:
 
Hi, congratulations.
Give your boyfriend time, hopefully he will come around. How old are you hun?

I just told my parents when I was 8 weeks gone and they were over the moon. I had some bloating for ages, but didn't get a noticable bump until I was 26 weeks really. x
 
haha slow down there!!!! Your parents will be very supportive, I promise. Oh..and WELCOME AND CONGRATS!!! Your bf will come around, I am sure. As soon as he hears the baby's heartbeat, he will love the baby. I started showing at around 16-17 weeks or so. But it depends on your body type.
congrats again!!!!
 
welcome! and congratulations on your pregnancy hun :)

Give your bf time to come around to the idea of being a father, but you better let him know sooner rather than later that your hearts set on keeping it, so he can start getting his head around it sooner! Telling everyone else can be difficult, and has been a worry for 90% of us younger mums, but my advice is, just bite the bullet and do it, if you wait you'll just find it gets harder and harder to tell your parents, and you'll think about it all the time, trust me, I've tried both ways, I told my parents within a couple of days with my first pregnancy, I told mum face to face, she didn't take it well, but she came around eventually, and with my second I waited about a month before telling them, and it was ten times harder, I ended up telling them via a letter. However you tell them, expect them to not have a great reaction, chances are they will be very shocked, but give them time :)
 
congrats :) i started showing about 17/18 weeks but this is my second, with my first i didnt show til about 27/28 weeks x
 
Hey congratulations :flow:
Everyone is different with there bumps, Im 20 weeks and i can tell its a bump but when i have a top on i just look a bit fat :nope:
Enjoy fitting into your jeans while you can :flower:
 
Hey and Congratulations!!
Just be straight up and honest with your parents - They may be shocked or disapointed at first but they do come round!
My OH said the 'A-word' to me when we found out n I told him to forget it.. After seeing our baby at 9 weeks and again today it's completely changed his views on the subject.
He loves our spud sooo much already! It's amazing to see how much he's changed since we found out :flower:
As for the bump.. I'm 12wks+3 and have got a little hard bump - Most peopler start to 'show' around 17weeks
I havnt fit into any of my jeans since 7 weeks!!
xx
 
Ah congratulations Hun and welcome to BnB my name is Rach I have a 17 month old daughter and I am 22w5d with a :pink:.

I started to look fat at about 15 weeks by 18 weeks it was hmm is she is pregnant or fat and now at 22 I think i have a pretty damn good bump. But this is my second so i showed earlier.
 
just found out im about 3 weeks pregnant aaaah :) so excited but my boyfriend wants me to get rid of it but im not going to. im so excited but not sure how to announce it to anyone else including my parents :( any help?? also when did people begin to show i cant wait to have a bump so everyone knows aaaah :) xx

Hey :)

Welcome to Baby & Bump forum

I'm Stacey & I'm 20 years old & expecting my first baby which is a girl in 11 weeks time :happydance:

Congratulations on the Pregnancy & I wish you a healthy 9 Months :)

It's up to you if you want to keep the baby which I can see clearly you do because you're excited. Obviously your boyfriend hasn't got his head around the situation because it's a big shock to him. It's early days & I think he needs time to get his head around it.

I was in the same boat as you darling. I found out I was pregnant & my boyfriend wasn't interested. I booked a doctors appointment straight away & went there on my own to confirm I was pregnant & I wanted a dating scan & that I obviously wanted to keep her.
A week later I took my mum out for a coffee.. So I was away from my sister & dad. So I told her.. She told me that everything was going to be alright & she would be there to support me. She then told my dad that night & he knew something was wrong with me because I've been acting strange and he was happy he was going to be a granddad.
I told my boyfriend I told my parents & he dumped me.
So my parents said that it's not fair that he wouldn't tell his parents that they was going to be grandparents. So my mum phoned them up and told them the news. Which I was glad about because my boyfriend didn't know what to do to and locked himself away and stopped eating because he was worried what his parents might do. So his mum had a long chat with him & the next day he was fine with me & asked to meet up and talk about it.
He said sorry for being a idiot and that he handled the situation wrong.
This all happened when I was 6 weeks pregnant & we've been fine ever since & his so excited on becoming a father.

I hope this helps. I know everyone is different but maybe your boyfriend needs to get his head around it and I think you should tell your parents & book in to the doctors to get a dating scan :)

Also I started to show around 26 weeks. It just looked like I ate abit too much. hehe! xx
 
Hey wady! I'm Georgia,16 and expecting my first little boy in November. Congrats and welcome, you'll love it here :flower:
If your boyfriend is worth it he will come around otherwise get rid of him, its your body and your baby, getting pregnant is supposed to be a positive thing. Approach your parents with care, I'm sure they'll support you no matter what, most are excited to be grandparents! but it's useful to hear what there opinion is before you make any final decisions. I started showing at around 20 weeks but it's different for everyone.
Had any symptoms yet? What are your plans now?
:flower: x
 

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