Just now dealing with it

[bdawn8403]

So, its been over 2 months since our miscarriage and my husband is just now breaking down. He cried this morning. I understand men grieve in their own time but he has purposely been putting it off because he didn't want to believe its real. He has also been a bit of an asshole to everybody because of it and the stress. Yesterday, someone pulled out right in front of him when he was going 55 and he almost hit them. He then followed them to where they were going and got out and screamed and cussed at them. He does have anger issues when driving and his middle finger is always up in the air. He just doesn't take it that far.

I am concerned with his emotional and mental well being right now. He said he doesn't think he can be trusted driving right now for fear he may do something stupid. Also that he feels the same way he did when he got his DUI over 5 years ago. I don't know what to do.

 

[aviolet]

I don't think there's anything YOU can do in this case - it's good that he's recognizing the danger that he's putting himself and others in concerning the road rage, and that he's communicating this to you. But do you think he would consider seeing a baby loss counselor? You could maybe both go together and deal with it together, facing the grief and talking it out with a professional who understands might be able to get his head a little bit leveled again so that his anger can be controlled. I'm so sorry for your loss and this difficult time