beckybumpbaby
pregnant and mummy!
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Hi girls/guys
I have read all of your posts and instead of replying back to them individually i thought i would just explain what i wanted to say in a new thread,
basically i am 26 and finally a very lucky mummy of 2, I had the heart breaking time before i had my daughter (who is now nearly 2) of having 5 miscarraiges then i had Hollie, i thought i would never know what it was like to have a baby, i was diagnosed with PCOS and thats all they could find i have had all the "maybe you were not ready" "it was obviously not meant to be" and the rest of them, and i was seriously thinking of throwing in the towel and giving up trying because each and every time it happened it was making me more and more depressed, i had 2 Blighted Ovums, 1 missed mc and 2 mc's. i was put on complete bedrest for the first 14 weeks of pregnancy due to bleeding with my feet raised up and it must have worked, she was my miracle, then i had another 3 miscarraiges before i had my son who is now 8 weeks old, the GP's sent me for tests and the gynae's came out with all sorts of CRAP! such as " its one of those things" "its like a roll of the dice being pregnant you cant expect to roll a 6 everytime!!" and "you cant carry boys" well that just proves they dont actually have an answer and fobbed me off with the last excuse because i feel they were fed up with me hounding them every other day for answers, i just felt if i had answers i could "let go" i have never forgotten any of the experiences as they are all so very individual, and the pain never goes away just gets easier to deal with, i often look at my children and feel a HUGE surge of love for them
i think going through a miscarraige is the hardest thing a woman has to deal with in life and you need all the strength and support in the world to get through it,
if anyone needs to talk or advice please feel free to pm me or reply to the post and i will try from personal experience to help, i believe that no gp could know or begin to know what we went through by reading text books it takes personal experience to help another
love to you all xxxxxxx
I have read all of your posts and instead of replying back to them individually i thought i would just explain what i wanted to say in a new thread,
basically i am 26 and finally a very lucky mummy of 2, I had the heart breaking time before i had my daughter (who is now nearly 2) of having 5 miscarraiges then i had Hollie, i thought i would never know what it was like to have a baby, i was diagnosed with PCOS and thats all they could find i have had all the "maybe you were not ready" "it was obviously not meant to be" and the rest of them, and i was seriously thinking of throwing in the towel and giving up trying because each and every time it happened it was making me more and more depressed, i had 2 Blighted Ovums, 1 missed mc and 2 mc's. i was put on complete bedrest for the first 14 weeks of pregnancy due to bleeding with my feet raised up and it must have worked, she was my miracle, then i had another 3 miscarraiges before i had my son who is now 8 weeks old, the GP's sent me for tests and the gynae's came out with all sorts of CRAP! such as " its one of those things" "its like a roll of the dice being pregnant you cant expect to roll a 6 everytime!!" and "you cant carry boys" well that just proves they dont actually have an answer and fobbed me off with the last excuse because i feel they were fed up with me hounding them every other day for answers, i just felt if i had answers i could "let go" i have never forgotten any of the experiences as they are all so very individual, and the pain never goes away just gets easier to deal with, i often look at my children and feel a HUGE surge of love for them
i think going through a miscarraige is the hardest thing a woman has to deal with in life and you need all the strength and support in the world to get through it,
if anyone needs to talk or advice please feel free to pm me or reply to the post and i will try from personal experience to help, i believe that no gp could know or begin to know what we went through by reading text books it takes personal experience to help another
love to you all xxxxxxx