Keeping it a secret while others close to you are ttc?

[Wudluvanuva1]

Gotta sit there & talk babies with my sil she's 13 wks all the time knowing i am but we're trying to wait till i'm 12 weeks!
Then my bff just phoned & said they were going to start ttc right away & i'm like oooooooo do i tell her do i not?
I was good & didn't but it's soo hard not to just blurt it out

 

[MikieC]

I know what you mean! We want to wait until the 12 weeks because we have told people early before but I'm finding it really hard. There's a girl in my work who confides in me because we have both experienced miscarriages and I feel really bad about keeping this from her as I know she will be delighted for me.

Keep strong and stay good!

M x

 

[Gemie]

You're better than me I couldn't hold it for anything specially not if someone I knew told me there were expecting/trying lol

 

[Tadan]

I probably would'a said something too. So well done to you for keeping it in! 12 weeks will hit in no time and then you'll be able to shout it from the rooftops!

 

[KS1977]

I am in the exact same situation hun as you. My sister is PG and she is about 16 weeks gone. I am so wanting to tell everyone but can't yet and she and my mum are talking babies etc and I am thinking...hang on a minute, I want to join in ....but can't yet as I want to wait til about 10 -11 weeks.

My friend has been having IVF too. She hasn't been successful yet, but don't want to upset her by my news......It's tough, but it will eventually be out in the open. x

 

[Tigerlilies]

There are some ppl that I trust that I confided in, but I haven't told everyone too since I'm MC before. Also, I have a coworker who MC a week after I did, and I don't consider her a friend but she once thought she was PG again before I got PG and it actually really hurt since I was unsuccessful at the time. Come to find out, it was a false positive test, so to be considerate, I'm waiting until she gets PG herself and when I reach 12wks as well.

 

[MissFox]

I was at a friend's house and someone's wife said she was pregnant- only 5 or 6 weeks, so I blurted IM ALMOST 8 WEEKS! AWESOME!
I've told some people though- where DF has told the world already. Only a couple more weeks to go though! Then it can be told to my friends.
I had to tell my BFF though. Had to. She wants kids so bad but it's not happening for her (her bf isn't ready) but I knew she'd be happy for me. And she's great- giving me pants a couple sizes up frm my normal size and just being a great friend.