Kinda annoyed

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by pinkjoelle, Jan 26, 2011.

  1. pinkjoelle

    pinkjoelle Well-Known Member

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    Kinda anoyed at my mother in law, when I told her the good news I also specified to not spread it around, its too early and she went and posted it on facebook. I have a few friends from work on there and I dont want them to know yet because it could affect my nomination for a permanent job ( im work by contract) I understand that shes happy, but stuff goes fast on facebook....
     
  2. PinkP

    PinkP Pregnant with my 1st baby

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    I'd be annoyed to, to be honest . .

    Can you not just have a quick word/call with her and tell her how you feel and that you don't want people to know until 12 (or . . ) weeks or so?
     
  3. Littlechimpma

    Littlechimpma Well-Known Member

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    Oh dear . . .I would be furious - not even just about the job but its your news to tell . . .tell her to take it off immediately!!!!

    Good luck and you are very kind only being 'kinda annoyed'

    x
     
  4. kimbotrav

    kimbotrav Well-Known Member

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    mmmm i can completely understand why u would be annoyed id be furious its up to u to tell people i bet shes prob excited but she should have really respected ure wishes....mother in laws lol can be a handful lol xxxx
     
  5. Claudia83

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    When I told my in-laws, I specifically made it clear to my my Mom-in-law to not say anything OR post on FB. She called a week later asking if she could tell one of her sister-in-laws (also my friend on FB) and I said yes, but that it would end there and that she should also not be telling anyone else or posting on FB. I think she got it and finally said "Yeah, I know it is your news to share" and I had to tell her a lot of my OWN family didn't know and it wasn't fair. They're like little kids, you have to spell out everything for them.
     
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    leylak Well-Known Member

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    Well my mom in law did not tell anyone (as far as I know, I trust her) but my own mother did tell my aunt and my uncle although I told her not to tell anyone yet. so I did not say anything to her for telling but if I get pregnant again, I will think twice before telling her.
     
  7. pinkjoelle

    pinkjoelle Well-Known Member

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    well I spoke with her and she said she wasnt good at keeping secrets while gigiling.. I understand the happyness.. I explained to her that its too early and everything....

    I still have a hard time believing im pregnant...lol I use to dream that I told people I was pregnant when I was not than got really nervous that they would find out... now I think im scared that dream is a reality...lol
     

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