at the moment im having a few issues with OH, im trying to work out if its me blowing things out of proportion or not. a few months ago he went on a diet, now to be honest i get very little money off him because he always has something more important to pay out so it was down to me to buy his weight watcher meals etc (not friggin cheap) and he bought himself a gym pass for a month, i was supportive at first but then he started going to the gym twice a day for 4 hours at a time, he stopped helping out around the house, moaned he was hungry and went thru shitloads of his ww stuff within days of buying it. what bothered me most then is that i felt like i never got to see him, he was either at the gym or going somewhere else so i started to try and tell him this but to him i was just having another go at him. last week we got a new car (baring in mind i still havent had any real money off him, he gets £114 per fortnight and i havent had nothing off him for months) so anyways hes got this car from his compensation money from an accident, (he gave me £500, 400 of which went on baby stuff, the other 100 went on the girls,) he was left with just under 1000, but he pissed it up the wall, now his insurence is £89 per month, and with the deductions taken from his money already per fortnight he comes out with £70 so im having to pay the rest of his insurence, his ps3, his food, his bills, his petrol money (when he goes shop now for me i get no change at all anymore) and still does sod all around the house. not only is the whole money thing stressing me, but hes never in anymore, i blink and hes gone out the door, today hed gone out before i even woke up (so he went at about 9) to watch my cousin play football (why? im not even close with my cousin ffs) i got a text at 10 sayin it doesnt kick off till 12 and he would be back as soon as, i text at half 2 asking how long he was gonna be, i get dont know as a reply. so i told him to stay as long as he likes, he doesnt even have to come home at all anymore ive had enough. yesterday he promised the kids to take them on an easter egg hunt today so im pretty pissed off bout that. the build up to me sending the text tellin him id had enough was: thursday last week: got car, put £30 in petrol, spent the day driving my brother about, came home got a text at midnight, my brother asking him to pick him up from his night on the piss friday: spent the day with my brother, went to his mates at night saturday:spent day with his mates and night sunday:took me shopping, i was pretty ill to be honest cudda done with just going to bed he said hed watch the kids, he pissed off to watch football. monday: spent the day with his mates, went to his mates at night tuesday:spent all day out, came back at 10 to watch smallville, went out afterwards can ya see where im going with this? last night he said right im in now, lock up blabla then he got a text, oh your cousin wants me to come up so we can sort out arrangments for footie tomoro (it was 11.30 at night ffs) so i said fine watever threw his keys at him, he didnt go but he wanted to, i cud see it in his face so is it me being hormonal or is he being a dick lately?