LuckySalem
2 daughters
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My last birth with DD was a failed homebirth that became an emergency C/S when DD presented with the wrong part of her head.
This time I've agreed to go into hospital but that I wont go in till later than they'd like - they want to put me on a continuous monitor (non mobile one) to keep an eye on the scar.
So.... I've said no to continuous monitoring but will accept intermitent monitoring.
I want to say no to going in when contractions start (as the requested) but I don't want to just say no, just to have my own way.
My problem with being in hospital is
I don't like them so want to spend as little time as possible there.
I want to be relaxed and left alone as much as possible
I don't want to be parted from DP which i've heard they may do if i'm not in active labour (if i'm not in active labour they won't send me home apparently)
So I wanted to know everyone's experience of this and whether I'm being over the top - if possible? Please
This time I've agreed to go into hospital but that I wont go in till later than they'd like - they want to put me on a continuous monitor (non mobile one) to keep an eye on the scar.
So.... I've said no to continuous monitoring but will accept intermitent monitoring.
I want to say no to going in when contractions start (as the requested) but I don't want to just say no, just to have my own way.
My problem with being in hospital is
I don't like them so want to spend as little time as possible there.
I want to be relaxed and left alone as much as possible
I don't want to be parted from DP which i've heard they may do if i'm not in active labour (if i'm not in active labour they won't send me home apparently)
So I wanted to know everyone's experience of this and whether I'm being over the top - if possible? Please